If you're stressing over how to win back your ex back, I know how it feels because I've been there too.
You can't think about anything else.
You feel like your heart's been ripped out.
Just about every place reminds you of your ex.
You have no appetite.
You can't sleep at night thinking about your ex and when you wake up, that's the first thing that comes to mind.
In fact, you're thinking every second about how to win your ex back.
Well, whatever you do, don't make the same mistakes I did which almost resulted in me losing my ex -- 1.
Trying to convince your ex that it's stupid or wrong to leave.
No matter how true this might be, he or she is going to get irritated to hear it from you and feel like you're not listening.
Find some way of getting your ex to reach this conclusion by himself or herself.
2.
Apologize over and over again.
You might think this is what your ex wants to hear from you but its not helping.
By apologizing repeatedly, you remind your ex of all the things there are wrong.
Don't focus on the bad or past things, apologize once or twice and start moving on.
3.
Don't argue about who is at fault.
If you try to say you're not at fault, your ex will think you're laying the blame on him or her.
The trick is not to figure out who is at fault but to accept that something is wrong and find a solution that both of you can accept.
Figuring out how to win your ex back is just as much about not doing anything to make things worse.