A monogram signifies union, not just between initials, but between two people. If you are single then this just means that there is more room to play with. A monogram announces who you are. In layman's terms it's no different than signing with an X on a dotted line. It's just a fancier way to do it of course.
It is true - a monogram is still a monogram as long as it contains two or more letters. Technically, the rules have changed over the years and today you can place any letter anywhere your heart desires. Along with this design change, we can't ignore how the dynamics of the traditional relationship has changed also. Monograms can be customized to fit your unique situation in the form of a distinctive design.    Â
Why this tutorial on the monogram then? Well, tradition plays a big role here. We have all conformed, in some way or another, to the rules of tradition and etiquette. Yup, etiquette is also a big player and it's a stone cold opponent. Tradition and etiquette work hand and hand, providing us with the rules that we should faithfully follow. There are many factors like the expected roles of men and women and cultural differences that can be stated further to explain why a monogram is a monogram. I will save you the pain of reading that information for another article.         Â
To create a monogram there are just five necessary steps you must follow. The end result will garner a unique and stylish composition, one that will leave your guests asking - where did you get that?
1. A traditional monogram consists of three initials. Â
2. Two or more initials uncombined, meaning they do not touch, is not a monogram. It is called a cypher.  Sorry, but what you once thought was a monogram, is surprisingly not.
3. You must use your first name and last name (surname) initial. Your middle name initial should be included.  Traditionally this is how it's done.
4. Your last name initial is always in the middle and embellished in some way. It is usually the largest letter in a monogram. Play close attention to this step.  It could mean utter disaster for the perfect wedding you have always dreamed about if you are not careful. Â
5. Couples should pay close attention here. The male's first name initial is always placed on the left side of the monogram. The female's first name initial is on the right and the shared last name initial goes in the middle. Â
It is true - a monogram is still a monogram as long as it contains two or more letters. Technically, the rules have changed over the years and today you can place any letter anywhere your heart desires. Along with this design change, we can't ignore how the dynamics of the traditional relationship has changed also. Monograms can be customized to fit your unique situation in the form of a distinctive design.    Â
Why this tutorial on the monogram then? Well, tradition plays a big role here. We have all conformed, in some way or another, to the rules of tradition and etiquette. Yup, etiquette is also a big player and it's a stone cold opponent. Tradition and etiquette work hand and hand, providing us with the rules that we should faithfully follow. There are many factors like the expected roles of men and women and cultural differences that can be stated further to explain why a monogram is a monogram. I will save you the pain of reading that information for another article.         Â
To create a monogram there are just five necessary steps you must follow. The end result will garner a unique and stylish composition, one that will leave your guests asking - where did you get that?
1. A traditional monogram consists of three initials. Â
2. Two or more initials uncombined, meaning they do not touch, is not a monogram. It is called a cypher.  Sorry, but what you once thought was a monogram, is surprisingly not.
3. You must use your first name and last name (surname) initial. Your middle name initial should be included.  Traditionally this is how it's done.
4. Your last name initial is always in the middle and embellished in some way. It is usually the largest letter in a monogram. Play close attention to this step.  It could mean utter disaster for the perfect wedding you have always dreamed about if you are not careful. Â
5. Couples should pay close attention here. The male's first name initial is always placed on the left side of the monogram. The female's first name initial is on the right and the shared last name initial goes in the middle. Â
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