Still feeling the loss of your partner? Losing them can be painful, and hard for you to work through.
It consumes your every waking moment, almost to the point that you can't do anything but think of them.
Looking for ways to win them back? Want to end the pain of being without them? Here are a few things you can try.
Confess There's a reason it didn't work out the first time around, and it could be because of something you did or said.
It's time to come clean.
Tell her the truth about it, even if it means causing a few more problems or having a conversation you were hoping to avoid.
It's the first step in repairing the damage that has been done.
Make the time There are always going to be distractions in life; school, work, friends, family, children etc.
But, you have to make time to spend with her, especially when life starts to get the better of you.
It's those times where you can derive strength from one another, so the next time something comes up, you'll be stronger and you can get through it together.
Compromise You have to give a little to get a little.
If you finally have her in a position where she's ready to talk about what's been happening, you need to be flexible and be willing to make changes.
It has to be fifty-fifty; you have to meet her half way.
If you don't, you'll find yourself in the same position you were in when the problems started.
Let them see you sweat You are supposed to keep cool under pressure, but maybe showing her how badly this is affecting you could be just what you need.
Let him or her see that you're hurt, that you miss them, that you want nothing more than to work things out.
Tell them you love them The "L word" works almost every time, especially in situations where you've never said it before or don't say it very often.
But, here's the catch; you can tell them you love them, but you have to mean it.
If you don't, they'll smell insincerity on you a mile away and it will backfire on you.
Acknowledge their feelings Whatever problems made their way into your relationship and ruined it, it has taken a toll on both of you.
The worst thing you can do is try to pretend that it didn't affect them.
Acknowledge that they, too, were hurt about what happened.
If you make it all about you, they'll begin to feel as if they're feelings aren't valid.
That's a step in the wrong direction.
No more secrets Lay it all out there and hope for the best.
If you keep something from them and find out another way, you'll find yourself even worse off than you were before.
There are some things that are better left unsaid, but you can't let secrets tear you two apart.
Share with them everything they need to know, let it all out.
After you do, the two of you will become more stronger.