Social comfort is the necessary step in how to seduce women that comes right after the opener and right before the attraction techniques.
Don't even think about starting in on attraction until she's comfortable with you and considers you an ordinary guy who's cool to hang out with.
Here are 24 ways to do this.
Use Questions.
Ask her questions that you can turn into conversational topics (not just the "bad interview" conversation).
Transitioning.
Learn how to transition between topics; when things get stale, move it to something else.
Conversational Ratio.
Keep a good ratio between you and her speaking.
Talk About Yourself.
Tell her about yourself and make yourself the topic of conversation (remember - you're trying to build comfort only, so share).
Observe.
See how she reacts to the things you say and talk about.
Regional References.
Know what's going on in your city because this makes great conversation topics.
Current Events.
It's also good to know what's going on in the world, especially the things women care about.
Pacing.
Keep it going slow and be empathetic.
Interactivity and Check-Ins.
Don't just give her a monologue; make sure she's listening.
Relating.
Show her you know how to relate to people and make ties.
Use Her Name.
This sounds stupid, but remember her name and use it often! Talking About Interests.
Steer the conversation to what you're into.
Enthusiasm.
Make sure she sees that you love talking to people.
Positivity.
Don't let the smile leave your face.
Attitude is essential in all social encounters.
Genuine Interest And Compliments.
Find ways to compliment her and show interest that are really sincere and she'll respond to that.
Self-Commentary.
Talk about how you're doing and give a little commentary on how it's going to yourself.
Hooks and Open Looks.
This is an easy to use tactic that I discuss elsewhere.
Role-Playing.
You can use role playing in so many different ways and it's lots of fun.
Group Dynamics.
Know how to work the group and avoid being cock-blocked.
You've got to get them all comfortable with you or else she won't be.
Stay Relaxed.
You always want to be relaxed, but especially when trying to get her comfortable with you.
Be Prepared.
Beforehand brainstorm a list of topics you're good at and have them ready at your disposal.
Share.
Be generous with yourself and give a little.
Does it sound like a lot? It may be, but run down this list again very carefully and think of ways you can use these techniques.
Much of it is second nature.
Spend some time on each one and try then out in your next social encounter with strangers.
Building social comfort is essential in learning how to seduce women.
Don't even think about starting in on attraction until she's comfortable with you and considers you an ordinary guy who's cool to hang out with.
Here are 24 ways to do this.
Use Questions.
Ask her questions that you can turn into conversational topics (not just the "bad interview" conversation).
Transitioning.
Learn how to transition between topics; when things get stale, move it to something else.
Conversational Ratio.
Keep a good ratio between you and her speaking.
Talk About Yourself.
Tell her about yourself and make yourself the topic of conversation (remember - you're trying to build comfort only, so share).
Observe.
See how she reacts to the things you say and talk about.
Regional References.
Know what's going on in your city because this makes great conversation topics.
Current Events.
It's also good to know what's going on in the world, especially the things women care about.
Pacing.
Keep it going slow and be empathetic.
Interactivity and Check-Ins.
Don't just give her a monologue; make sure she's listening.
Relating.
Show her you know how to relate to people and make ties.
Use Her Name.
This sounds stupid, but remember her name and use it often! Talking About Interests.
Steer the conversation to what you're into.
Enthusiasm.
Make sure she sees that you love talking to people.
Positivity.
Don't let the smile leave your face.
Attitude is essential in all social encounters.
Genuine Interest And Compliments.
Find ways to compliment her and show interest that are really sincere and she'll respond to that.
Self-Commentary.
Talk about how you're doing and give a little commentary on how it's going to yourself.
Hooks and Open Looks.
This is an easy to use tactic that I discuss elsewhere.
Role-Playing.
You can use role playing in so many different ways and it's lots of fun.
Group Dynamics.
Know how to work the group and avoid being cock-blocked.
You've got to get them all comfortable with you or else she won't be.
Stay Relaxed.
You always want to be relaxed, but especially when trying to get her comfortable with you.
Be Prepared.
Beforehand brainstorm a list of topics you're good at and have them ready at your disposal.
Share.
Be generous with yourself and give a little.
Does it sound like a lot? It may be, but run down this list again very carefully and think of ways you can use these techniques.
Much of it is second nature.
Spend some time on each one and try then out in your next social encounter with strangers.
Building social comfort is essential in learning how to seduce women.
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