How to Text Your Ex Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes Most Men Are Going to Make
It's so easy, isn't it? You just pick up your cell phone and punch out a few keys and next thing you know it, you are sending your ex girlfriend a text message. That's the problem. It's so easy that most guys are going to do this without putting much thought into it and that is going to lead to them sending her the wrong kind of text message. It's not the worst thing in the world to text an ex girlfriend, however, if you send her the wrong thing - it can end up being the one mistake that you can't take back that makes her decide that ending the relationship was probably the right thing to do.
Here are 3 mistakes that most men are going to make when they try to text their ex girlfriend that you should probably try to avoid:
1. Most guys are going to think it is a good idea to send her something sexual.
Sexting is something that you might try when you are still dating a woman, but it's probably not the right thing to do if you have broken up with a woman and you are trying to win her back. The first thing that is going to go through your ex girlfriend's mind is that the only reason why you want her back is because you want to go to bed with her, and that is going to make her feel like resisting any attempts that you make to reconcile with her. Sexting is something that you only want to do when the time is right, and it's not the right time if you and her are broken up with one another.
2. You really don't want to text your ex girlfriend an "I love you" message.
This is another thing that works when you are already in a relationship with a woman and things are progressing quite nicely, but if you and her are not together right now, then the last thing that you want to do is to send an "I love you" text. You are probably going to make her think that you want her too much and although you may not think that this is a bad thing, there is a really good chance that your ex girlfriend is going to think that it is.
3. You also don't want to send her text messages when she is busy at work or at school.
If your ex girlfriend is still in college or she is working a full time job, then you need to respect that time as being off limits for any means of contacting her. People get annoyed when they get a text when they are busy or in a situation where they shouldn't really be getting text messages and you can bet that her being in class or at work is going to be one of those times that she is going to get annoyed if she gets one of your texts.
Here are 3 mistakes that most men are going to make when they try to text their ex girlfriend that you should probably try to avoid:
1. Most guys are going to think it is a good idea to send her something sexual.
Sexting is something that you might try when you are still dating a woman, but it's probably not the right thing to do if you have broken up with a woman and you are trying to win her back. The first thing that is going to go through your ex girlfriend's mind is that the only reason why you want her back is because you want to go to bed with her, and that is going to make her feel like resisting any attempts that you make to reconcile with her. Sexting is something that you only want to do when the time is right, and it's not the right time if you and her are broken up with one another.
2. You really don't want to text your ex girlfriend an "I love you" message.
This is another thing that works when you are already in a relationship with a woman and things are progressing quite nicely, but if you and her are not together right now, then the last thing that you want to do is to send an "I love you" text. You are probably going to make her think that you want her too much and although you may not think that this is a bad thing, there is a really good chance that your ex girlfriend is going to think that it is.
3. You also don't want to send her text messages when she is busy at work or at school.
If your ex girlfriend is still in college or she is working a full time job, then you need to respect that time as being off limits for any means of contacting her. People get annoyed when they get a text when they are busy or in a situation where they shouldn't really be getting text messages and you can bet that her being in class or at work is going to be one of those times that she is going to get annoyed if she gets one of your texts.
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