Relationships are most of the time challenged by different factors. These challenges can pose big trouble to relationships the moment one party fails to overcome them. It is always important that the parties involved in the relationship stick to what they believe they have even if the sailing gets rough, even if everything gets worse or even if situations seem impossible to fix. But what if a relationship has gotten into a point when someone already gave up and you are an unwilling victim of his or her decisions? What if you have done your best to make your relationship work only to find out that the person you love is giving it up for reasons that do not make sense to you? What should you do, when the only choice you have in mind is to fight for the relationship no matter what it takes?

Alright, your lover has just broken up with you. That was probably the worst thing that ever happened in your life. You are so devastated not only because you never thought someone had the guts to do this to you, but because of all people, you never expected your lover whom you considered the most important person in your life to bring you into this kind of turmoil. You feel deeply in pain because you have put a lot of emotional investment in order to make the relationship work. Nothing can make this relationship end. That is something you promised yourself from the moment you had it.

So the best thing you should do, is to get your ex back and to get him or her to love you all the more this time around. The question is how?

Here are just few of the things you might want to try. There is no harm trying them but make sure to also use your common sense. It is always best that you act with your rational mind this time than be too emotional. There is a chance that your lover may get pissed off if you keep on bugging him or her about you wanting to get him or her back.

Give your lover some space. Show him or her that you can manage your life, set your priorities and be strong no matter how complicated the situation is. Be in control of your self. Do not sound and appear too needy. Hold back when you feel like begging your lover to go back to you. Set a timeline when you can finally talk things out with your lover. When your lover realizes how independent you are, and how strong you are, he or she might feel the urge to make the first move to talk to you. When this happens talk to him or her levelheadedly. Identify the reason for the break up and try to settle matters. Plan what else there is to do to put things back the way they used to be. Again don\'t sound so needy. You surely will find your ex gravitating towards you again the moment the two of you realize what your problem is and what both of you are willing to do to solve the problem.