Did you feel like you were getting crushed when he told you that it just was not working out anymore? Did you wonder what you did wrong and wonder if there was any possible way that you could win him back? Just because he broke your heart, it does not mean that you cannot find a way to mend it again and still end up back with him. Relationships go through their ups and their downs and sometimes it seems like it is hard to keep one intact.
Still, there does not need to be a reason why you cannot get him back if you still love him. What is it that they say? Where there is a will there is a way? Anyways, you don't have to make the assumption that he will never come back to you. Men are simple creatures and when you really know what it is that makes him want you, then you can use that to your advantage and win back your ex boyfriend even if he was the one to end the relationship.
Here's what you can do if you want to win him back:
1) Try to cut off contact with him for a while, just so that he can get the feling of missing you from his life.
If you have stayed in contact with your ex boyfriend, then he really has not gotten the true reality of what his life will be like without you in it. Sometimes, a man has to lose something or someone before he can really appreciate how much that person meant to him. Cut off ties to him for a little while and make sure that you do this for real. Text messages and e-mails still count, so those need to stop as well for a little while.
2)Â Make him see that you are not going to just sit back with a broken heart.
If there is anything in your life that you wanted to do but put off, then go ahead and do it NOW. When a guy sees that his ex girlfriend seems to be doing well and enjoying herself without him in her life, it will make him kind of get curious. He will want to see this new you, this woman he does not really know that well. And that can be enough to build on things with him and start a new relationship.
3)Â You want to have a plan of what you are going to say to him to get him thinking about you again.
Getting back an ex boyfriend is not always the easiest thing to do. You may worry that he won't care that you are not a part of his life and you might be afraid that he will end up with some other girl and that will be the end of it. When you have a plan that will show you how to get him back and it comes from the male perspective, then you have a much better chance of actually being back with your ex boyfriend.
Still, there does not need to be a reason why you cannot get him back if you still love him. What is it that they say? Where there is a will there is a way? Anyways, you don't have to make the assumption that he will never come back to you. Men are simple creatures and when you really know what it is that makes him want you, then you can use that to your advantage and win back your ex boyfriend even if he was the one to end the relationship.
Here's what you can do if you want to win him back:
1) Try to cut off contact with him for a while, just so that he can get the feling of missing you from his life.
If you have stayed in contact with your ex boyfriend, then he really has not gotten the true reality of what his life will be like without you in it. Sometimes, a man has to lose something or someone before he can really appreciate how much that person meant to him. Cut off ties to him for a little while and make sure that you do this for real. Text messages and e-mails still count, so those need to stop as well for a little while.
2)Â Make him see that you are not going to just sit back with a broken heart.
If there is anything in your life that you wanted to do but put off, then go ahead and do it NOW. When a guy sees that his ex girlfriend seems to be doing well and enjoying herself without him in her life, it will make him kind of get curious. He will want to see this new you, this woman he does not really know that well. And that can be enough to build on things with him and start a new relationship.
3)Â You want to have a plan of what you are going to say to him to get him thinking about you again.
Getting back an ex boyfriend is not always the easiest thing to do. You may worry that he won't care that you are not a part of his life and you might be afraid that he will end up with some other girl and that will be the end of it. When you have a plan that will show you how to get him back and it comes from the male perspective, then you have a much better chance of actually being back with your ex boyfriend.
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