If you're keen to win back your ex, there are some important things you need to do to increase your chances of saving your relationship.
A important factor when you start the processing of trying to win back your ex is making sure that you understand why the relationship ended.
The reason why this is important is because you can't fix a problem if you don't know what the problem is.
Another important consideration is to handle the break up well.
Be mature and admirable rather than an emotional wreck.
It's critical that you don't annoy your ex and make them feel like they are being stalked.
If you make sure you give them some space to work things out own their own then you'll stand a better chance to win back you ex.
Time apart also gives them the opportunity to miss you.
You can't miss someone if they're constantly trying to contact you and get your attention.
It's best to wait a few weeks before communicating with your ex to allow yourself to come to terms with the break up.
This will allow you to be composed as well as looking and feeling better when the time comes to talk/meet with your ex.
Giving yourself time to get your head around the break means that you will come across more calm and the meet up is less likely to result in you and your ex being defensive and arguing.
The meet up has to be informal and fun which can remind your ex of how happy you can be together.