To love and be loved is one of the most basic needs of a human being.
That is why it is the most painful experience to feel when your loved one starts to show signs that he's already ignoring you.
If you're uncertain whether his attention is no longer with you or he's just distracted, here are a few tips that would confirm your doubts: He won't meet your eyes when you're trying to talk to him.
Try to observe how he behaves each time you want to speak with him.
Does he still look you in the eye, or do his eyes wander elsewhere? If he can't even look at you while your speaking, then it's one of the most basic signs that he's already ignoring you.
His responses are off.
Try conversing with him.
If you frequently hear inappropriate comments or remarks such as him responding with a "yes" when you were asking him how his day went, then it means that his mind is somewhere else.
This is also a very subtle signal that your man is ignoring your very presence.
You feel like you're groveling for a moment with him.
How has he responded to your most recent dates? Was he aloof or somehow distracted? Do you have to beg just so you could spend the day with him? Then, it's time to wake up, girl! He's definitely spaced out, emotionally.
If you try to iron things out with him and he still remains silent, then it only means that you are already being ignored.
He answers with mere one-liners.
If you're pouring out your heart to him and he answers with "uhuh" or "yeah", then he's definitely thinking of something or someone else.
No man would disregard the woman that he cares for deeply.
So if he's been nothing but robotic lately, it's time to talk to him about the gravity of the situation.
Your calls end up in his voicemail.
If you've been trying hard to get in touch with him and he's been MIA, then this is clearer than the bright blue skies - he's hiding from you! He went on a vacation without your knowledge.
Your man going on a vacation without you?! This shouldn't happen in a healthy, happy relationship! Yet if you're experiencing it now, either he's experiencing midlife-crisis or he's just trying to get as far away from you as possible.
And when you try to contact his cell phone, again, you reach nothing but his voicemail.
When you visit his home or office, his relatives or colleagues tell you that he isn't there.
But would you believe them? Imagine going there for 3 days in a row and he's still not in? C'mon.
Just accept the fact that he's totally ignoring you now and it's time to move on - there are better guys out there!