So, you've recently had a break up and you want to get your ex back.
There are debates on the best approach to get her back, some would say showering her with all sorts of gifts and flowers should do the trick, some say that it's best to trigger her jealousy by flirting with another woman right in front of her.
These tactics may or may not work though.
You're better off without those tactics if you you're not one of those guys who love taking chances.
The key point to get your woman back is to take your break up with maturity.
Crying and begging would only hurt your chances of getting her back.
You wouldn't want her to think that you're desperate in any way.
She's really looking for a strong man who would not break down easily, especially when dealing with emotions.
If you're serious about getting her back, you have to show her that you have dignity during the break up.
You can't accomplish this by begging or crying.
One of the best ways of getting her back is by becoming her friend.
Since you've broken up, you'll have to find another way to be close to her, in a non-threatening manner though.
This could be done without much effort if you're her trusted friend.
As friends, you could always use this excuse to contact her frequently, or even go as far as going out on platonic dates, such as the ones you have with friends over coffee or tea breaks.
Right now, you want to be in her life as much as possible, while she heals through the break up.
As time goes by, she'd be fine with the fact that you're much closer, taking into account of how supportive you've been throughout this duration.