Do You Have the Nice Guy Syndrome?
Hey, when I had it, I definitely didn't know I did.
Even when I got acquainted with the concept, I still refused to accept it applies to me.
Was I fooling myself? No, my subconscious didn't want to even admit I could have something like this going.
Look, if you are above 18 and you are a virgin, you are almost surely a Nice Guy.
This however depends on whether you are a virgin because you are gay, very religious, or simply can't find a girlfriend.
My reason was the last one.
If your reason was that you can't find a girlfriend, then you are also a Nice Guy.
If you are, stop denying it.
Admit it first.
It's not such a big deal.
The faster you admit it, the faster you can get on with your life and get to solving this problem.
A lot of guys today seen to have this issue.
You should, however feel fortunate, even if you do have the nice guy syndrome.
This is because today, we have so many resources aimed at fixing this issue.
A decade ago, there was not much information on this subject.
There was also not that much support.
A guy back then would easily fall into depression and have no help or assistance with solving it.
Today, there are so many experts out there ready to help you.
In fact there are many books on the issue, there are also many live seminars, training, and groups that deal with it.
Be grateful for this, because it will accelerate your progress so much more than if you tried to solve it all by yourself.
Start looking for others guys that are dealing with the same issues.
They will help you, and you will help them.
If you find yourself treated poorly by women, getting pushed around by men, and in general always getting the bad end of the deal with people, I can tell you for certain that you have the Nice Guy Syndrome.
Period.
Even when I got acquainted with the concept, I still refused to accept it applies to me.
Was I fooling myself? No, my subconscious didn't want to even admit I could have something like this going.
Look, if you are above 18 and you are a virgin, you are almost surely a Nice Guy.
This however depends on whether you are a virgin because you are gay, very religious, or simply can't find a girlfriend.
My reason was the last one.
If your reason was that you can't find a girlfriend, then you are also a Nice Guy.
If you are, stop denying it.
Admit it first.
It's not such a big deal.
The faster you admit it, the faster you can get on with your life and get to solving this problem.
A lot of guys today seen to have this issue.
You should, however feel fortunate, even if you do have the nice guy syndrome.
This is because today, we have so many resources aimed at fixing this issue.
A decade ago, there was not much information on this subject.
There was also not that much support.
A guy back then would easily fall into depression and have no help or assistance with solving it.
Today, there are so many experts out there ready to help you.
In fact there are many books on the issue, there are also many live seminars, training, and groups that deal with it.
Be grateful for this, because it will accelerate your progress so much more than if you tried to solve it all by yourself.
Start looking for others guys that are dealing with the same issues.
They will help you, and you will help them.
If you find yourself treated poorly by women, getting pushed around by men, and in general always getting the bad end of the deal with people, I can tell you for certain that you have the Nice Guy Syndrome.
Period.
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