If you've read articles and ebooks about getting an ex back, then you know for sure that one of the main pieces of advice is working on your own emotions and on the emotions of your ex.
Namely, how to make him or her jealous of you if they were indifferent to you leading up to the breakup.
I don't disagree with such advice, and I think that jealousy is alarmingly powerful.
So I asked some of my clients from the past about their recent successes and how jealousy played into it.
Here's my favorite response: My favorite story was from a lady named Natalie (name changed for privacy, of course).
Natalie was in a relationship for 2 years, with a young child, when suddenly she found out that her boyfriend was interested in another woman.
They separated for a short while until one night she received a tip that her boyfriend was going to a particular nightclub in the city they lived in.
Natalie called a couple friends, a female and a guy friend, she 'did herself up' in a beautiful dress, and arrived at the same nightclub with her 2 friends.
As she arrived, her ex guy tried to grab her to talk to her, probably noticing how beautiful she looked, but she continued on to the middle of the club and danced with her guy friend, showing off her best moves all while ignoring her boyfriend and what appeared to be his new love interest.
He tried to grab her to talk a second time, and she ignored him.
Her best move was buying the girl that he was with a drink! She appeared young for him, so she actually snuck in a comment that "You don't appear old enough to do this yourself" and handed her the drink.
Later in the night her ex boyfriend appeared to be quarreling with the girl he was there with.
When Natalie returned home, her ex boyfriend was alone and upset, they ended up talking at that point, and now they are together again, and have been together for the last three years.
Was it all because she tried to make her ex jealous? It appears that way.
I receive similar stories like this one every week or so, and am amazed that the tactics that are written in the ebooks that I have promoted work so well.
I also enjoy corresponding with the people looking for breakup advice who have read the ebooks and have tried out the methods as well, so if that's you, you can always e-mail me.
Namely, how to make him or her jealous of you if they were indifferent to you leading up to the breakup.
I don't disagree with such advice, and I think that jealousy is alarmingly powerful.
So I asked some of my clients from the past about their recent successes and how jealousy played into it.
Here's my favorite response: My favorite story was from a lady named Natalie (name changed for privacy, of course).
Natalie was in a relationship for 2 years, with a young child, when suddenly she found out that her boyfriend was interested in another woman.
They separated for a short while until one night she received a tip that her boyfriend was going to a particular nightclub in the city they lived in.
Natalie called a couple friends, a female and a guy friend, she 'did herself up' in a beautiful dress, and arrived at the same nightclub with her 2 friends.
As she arrived, her ex guy tried to grab her to talk to her, probably noticing how beautiful she looked, but she continued on to the middle of the club and danced with her guy friend, showing off her best moves all while ignoring her boyfriend and what appeared to be his new love interest.
He tried to grab her to talk a second time, and she ignored him.
Her best move was buying the girl that he was with a drink! She appeared young for him, so she actually snuck in a comment that "You don't appear old enough to do this yourself" and handed her the drink.
Later in the night her ex boyfriend appeared to be quarreling with the girl he was there with.
When Natalie returned home, her ex boyfriend was alone and upset, they ended up talking at that point, and now they are together again, and have been together for the last three years.
Was it all because she tried to make her ex jealous? It appears that way.
I receive similar stories like this one every week or so, and am amazed that the tactics that are written in the ebooks that I have promoted work so well.
I also enjoy corresponding with the people looking for breakup advice who have read the ebooks and have tried out the methods as well, so if that's you, you can always e-mail me.
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