Feeling bad after the breakup is justified but if you are taking things too far and have become a total recluse then you are doing more harm than good.
The world might not seem as beautiful but you should know that no one has died and there are ways to get your ex back.
Get a hold on your emotions and do the following seven things to get your ex to take you back.
Get a handle on your emotions Feeling bad and shunning the world will only prove that you are not a strong person emotionally.
No one would want to be associated with a sissy like you and your ex is no different.
Instead take the breakup as temporary setback and control yourself from sliding down.
Mix with people and colleagues Try and mix with your friends and colleagues.
This will help you put the bitterness the split generated behind you.
Begin enjoying your friends company and learn to have fun minus your ex.
You will also be able to refine your social skills and will become popular with others.
Begin the changing process Get to the bottom of the breakup and find out what is it that your ex disapproved in you as a person.
Once you know about it then begin the process of self improvement in right earnest.
Don't think that you are doing all this for your ex but do it for yourself.
Enjoy your single status It has been after quite a while that you are single once again.
Learn to relish the freedom that comes with being single.
You can have all the fun partying late into the night without a care in the world.
Your happiness should show on your face and this will in turn make your ex jealous of you.
Avoid dating anyone else One thing that you should guard against is dating on the rebound.
This will unnecessarily complicate the issue and you will face a tough time patching up with your ex.
However, this does not mean that you do not mix with members of the opposite sex.
Just be careful that you don't get carried away in your vulnerable moments.
Reach out to your ex Once some time has passed and you sense that your ex is no longer as hostile towards you as in the beginning reach out to him/her and renew your friendship.
Keep in touch and exchange notes on personal and professional developments.
Prove that you deserve a second shot Build a good rapport with your ex and then start meeting your ex on a regular basis, slowly you realize that he/she is warming up to the idea of a patch up.
Prove that you are a changed person and ask for another shot at the relationship.
If you are sincere in your approach your ex will gladly give you one.