Most men would rather jump out of an airplane than approach a hot woman and strike up a conversation.
Come on guys! Women are actually a lot nicer than we give them credit for.
Once you get the initial smile from her things get easier.
While women won't likely remember what you talked about the first 5 minutes you met, they will remember the "vibe.
" First off, the opener that always at least gets me SOMEWHERE with a woman (IE she doesn't laugh in my face or tase me).
YOU: Hi, I saw you from across the room and knew if I didn't come up and introduce myself I would regret it.
I'm Ruben.
HER: (big smile) Haha.
I'm Lisa.
Phew, hard part's over.
So where do you go from there? Instead of saying "Do you live nearbyl?" you can make a subtle compliment: "You look like you live in the Soho area.
It's just the vibe I'm getting.
" You're allowed to be wrong, because she'll correct you.
The goal is to have solid eye contact and body language, and to look completely relaxed as if you do this often.
I recommend sharing something about yourself.
"I'm here celebrating a buddy's birthday.
He's the first one to turn 30 and needed some moral support.
"Or "I had a business meeting at happy hour but I liked this place and decided to stick around!" The best statements are based on things you're actually doing in your life.
That's why it's so important to do new and interesting activities (i.
e.
to have a life.
)