You are distraught since the time your ex has left you and you snap at one and all that try to console or offer advice to you.
This is understandable and you are reacting just the way millions do when they are dumped by their partners.
However, you have to be careful, as you will also lose the few friends you have left and then life will be even more miserable.
Instead of fighting over what and who was responsible for the breakup, use these four tips and get your ex back before it is too late.
Get over your insecurity Although there is a big void now in your life there is no reason for you to go to pieces.
You have only lost your love no one has died.
Get a handle on your emotions and stop feeling lonely and miserable.
The best you can now do is to begin picking up the pieces and start rebuilding your life.
While you do this also make a plan that you can execute to get your ex back.
Take ownership of your mistakes Make an honest assessment of your actions and if you feel that you were the one who drove your ex to take the extreme step then take responsibility for the breakup and reform yourself.
Change will not come easy and you will have to persevere till you achieve the results.
Remember you have to convince your ex to come back and he/she will only come if you have changed for the better.
Wow your ex If you still retain the physical attributes that attracted your ex to you in the first place, then this will be easy.
However, if you have changed into a slob then some sweating is inevitable to get back in shape.
Start to dress like you are out to attract potential mates.
In short you will have to seduce your ex all over again.
Reignite the passion in your ex Create conditions that will make your ex fall back in love with you.
If you recollect what attracted your ex to you when you first met this will be easy.
However, do not attempt to emotionally blackmail your ex.
If the attraction is genuine you will be together forever.