We've all been there.
The end of the first date comes and you walk with your new perspective partner until you head in your different directions.
As you both say your goodbyes, thoughts start running through your head as to whether you should move in for a kiss.
Does he/she like me?.
What if we bump heads? What if he/she thinks I'm a bad kisser? The first point I'm going to make is that you must try and get these questions from entering your head.
This is half, if not more, of the problem.
If you over think your actions, you will more than likely fluff your big line.
Confidence plays an important part in being able to deliver a great kiss, so you have to learn to relax.
Put positive thoughts into your mind as you are leading up to your kiss and more often than not you will deliver.
Think about how he/she had a lovely evening with you.
There is a reason why you made it to the end of the evening, because YOU entertained him/her enough.
Think how he/she is going to enjoy kissing you.
All this positivity will have you actually wanting to kiss, not afraid of it.
Also don't go overboard with the first kiss.
Be sensual rather than too full on.
Don't let the adrenaline get the better of you otherwise you may come across to aggressive.
Take a couple of deep breaths before you are ready and this will calm your nerves.
Be gentle and lock your lips before you try any tongue action.
Your partner will not appreciate being mauled, but a nice soft kiss generally leads to a more passionate kiss as you both feel the excitement.
It is very important for your confidence to learn how to kiss properly, so I hope this helped.