After a break up, when your ex starts dating another woman, you may feel resigned to the fact that you've lost any chance at getting him back. This isn't necessarily true and in fact, many women who find themselves in love with an ex who is involved with someone else do win their man back. Even though you may think that the best thing you can do is to point out every single flaw his new girlfriend has, this isn't the right approach. Instead you need to carefully consider how you handle yourself. If you play your cards right, that ex boyfriend will be your current boyfriend again before you know it.

The best way to get back an ex boyfriend who is involved with someone else is to be as supportive as you possibly can about it. If you and your ex have remained close and he looks to you for advice choose your words carefully. If he complains about his current relationship, you need to listen and offer whatever sage advice you can without talking poorly about his girlfriend. When men are involved with a woman they will often feel very comfortable pointing out all her flaws, yet when someone else does, they are very quick to jump to her defense. If you suggest to him that his girlfriend is to blame for their current relationship woes he may feel you are attacking her. It's best to simply state that you hope they'll work it out and that you know how much he cares for her.

Although this sounds like an incredibly difficult thing to do, you must remember that your actions and words are simply setting the stage for an eventual reunion between you and your ex. If you want to get back an ex boyfriend you must position yourself as someone he can trust. You also want him to see you as a close friend who he can share anything with. If he is indeed struggling with conflict with his new girlfriend he'll start to remember how nice things were with you and he'll also take notice of how mature and wise you are now. You want him to see you as a positive influence in his life, not someone who is quick to point out why his current girl isn't the girl for him.

It's also incredibly important that you don't become someone he can constantly count on regardless of the situation or time of day. You want to give him the impression that you have moved on with your life as well. A good way to accomplish this is to not answer each of his calls and feign that you are busy sometimes when he wants to get together to talk. Don't make up any elaborate excuses, don't claim it's because you are going on a date, simply say you are busy. This is mysterious enough that it will eat at his imagination and he'll wonder what could be more important to you than him. Once he realizes that you have your own life that is separate from his, he'll start to see you as his girlfriend again.