I bet you can remember what he was wearing and how his hair looked when it happened.
All of it seems so unimportant right now, now that he broke your heart into a million pieces.
You're also probably running the whole scene through your mind reliving it over and over again, wondering if you could have done anything differently at that moment to not have him break up with you.
I'm sorry to say, but replaying it over and over again isn't going to change what happened.
He's gone for the time being and you are by yourself and lonely.
You're probably also running different scenarios through your mind of how you might get your ex boyfriend back, of which none of the ideas that you've come up with so far seem plausible to get him back, do they? I know what you're going through.
You're not some crazy ex girlfriend.
Pulling some crazy hairbrained scheme to get him back, like what you see on T.
V.
or in the movies.
Wacky stuff like what you see on TV or the movies only works in the movies, for some reason it doesn't work in real life, it'd be nice if it did though.
The first thing that you need to do is take some time to evaluate your situation and your life right now.
Are you in a position to be strong and stand on your own, or do you need a man standing by your side to feel whole? Right now it is perfectly normal to be emotional, and if you feel a bit needy that's fine as well.
Find a close friend to cry on their shoulder.
No matter what you do, don't contact your ex right now, as you may come off very needy and desperate in your emotional state.
Pleading with him to take you back may seem like a good plan right now, but it will only push him further away.
Men are jerks and they don't know how to deal with us when we are in an emotionally needy state, so they just avoid us.
So as tough as it may be to do, get yourself together.
You need to remember that you are your own woman with or without him.
Breakups are painful and it's fine to feel sad, lonely and heartbroken, however if you want him back, you're gonna have to show him how much he's missing out on, by not being with a great woman like you.
Go out and get your hair done, buy some new clothes and hold your head up high and be proud, you deserve it.
It's time to completely accept that you and your boyfriend are broken up.
Let your ex boyfriend know that you're OK with the break up and that you can handle it like a mature grownup.
Write your ex a short note letting him know this info, and let him know that you still want to remain friends and to keep in touch.
You might be asking yourself, "How is this going to help me get my ex boyfriend back?" Great question, while you are telling him you are OK with the breakup, you will secretly be planning out a strategy to slowly win back his heart.
You need to have a proven plan of action to ensure getting your boyfriend back.
First things first though, you have to let him know that you're OK and he doesn't have to push you away.
All of it seems so unimportant right now, now that he broke your heart into a million pieces.
You're also probably running the whole scene through your mind reliving it over and over again, wondering if you could have done anything differently at that moment to not have him break up with you.
I'm sorry to say, but replaying it over and over again isn't going to change what happened.
He's gone for the time being and you are by yourself and lonely.
You're probably also running different scenarios through your mind of how you might get your ex boyfriend back, of which none of the ideas that you've come up with so far seem plausible to get him back, do they? I know what you're going through.
You're not some crazy ex girlfriend.
Pulling some crazy hairbrained scheme to get him back, like what you see on T.
V.
or in the movies.
Wacky stuff like what you see on TV or the movies only works in the movies, for some reason it doesn't work in real life, it'd be nice if it did though.
The first thing that you need to do is take some time to evaluate your situation and your life right now.
Are you in a position to be strong and stand on your own, or do you need a man standing by your side to feel whole? Right now it is perfectly normal to be emotional, and if you feel a bit needy that's fine as well.
Find a close friend to cry on their shoulder.
No matter what you do, don't contact your ex right now, as you may come off very needy and desperate in your emotional state.
Pleading with him to take you back may seem like a good plan right now, but it will only push him further away.
Men are jerks and they don't know how to deal with us when we are in an emotionally needy state, so they just avoid us.
So as tough as it may be to do, get yourself together.
You need to remember that you are your own woman with or without him.
Breakups are painful and it's fine to feel sad, lonely and heartbroken, however if you want him back, you're gonna have to show him how much he's missing out on, by not being with a great woman like you.
Go out and get your hair done, buy some new clothes and hold your head up high and be proud, you deserve it.
It's time to completely accept that you and your boyfriend are broken up.
Let your ex boyfriend know that you're OK with the break up and that you can handle it like a mature grownup.
Write your ex a short note letting him know this info, and let him know that you still want to remain friends and to keep in touch.
You might be asking yourself, "How is this going to help me get my ex boyfriend back?" Great question, while you are telling him you are OK with the breakup, you will secretly be planning out a strategy to slowly win back his heart.
You need to have a proven plan of action to ensure getting your boyfriend back.
First things first though, you have to let him know that you're OK and he doesn't have to push you away.
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