Have you been trying very hard to get an ex back? And fail repeatedly even after several attempts of trying to solve the issues between the both of you? Well, there is good news for you. Instead of wasting your energy winning love back the hard way, let me share with you a faster way to fix a relationship.
After plenty of research online, I found out that a faster way to fix a relationship is to focus on increasing the passion and connection in your relationship before tackling the problems that separated the both of you. And I can assure you that if you heed my advice before working on existing issues with your ex, it will make the problem solving process a much easier one. Let me use this simple example to illustrate my point.
Just take a moment to recall back to the times when both of you first met. The passion was strong and both of you could do no wrong. Remember the time when your ex turns up half an hour late for your date? You would wait there patiently and stop yourself from texting or calling your ex so that he or she won't have to rush. And when your ex arrives, you greet him or her with a smile and say 'it's ok'.
Half a year into the relationship, you start to get impatient after 5 minutes of waiting. You start to ramble to yourself, 'Why is he/she always late?' You find that you are no longer as patient as you were before and you start to see more and more flaws in your partner.
Am I right? Well this is because, for some of you, as you progress through the journey of your relationship the passion slowly dies off. You start picking out flaws of your partner that you were once ok with. On top of that, you start feeling that your partner isn't the 'perfect' person he or she once was. And finally, both of you reach a stage where you are unhappy and tired of the relationship and you guys break up.
From this example, it is plain to see that the reason you guys started having differences is because the passion in the relationship has died off or isn't strong enough to contain the unhappiness. So, get back the passion in your relationship and you will see that even the biggest problems can be solved easily. This is the key to winning love back by using a faster way to fix a relationship.
So what you can do is to go on a date with your ex and temporarily forget about the issues troubling the both of you. Enjoy yourselves and relive or even revive the times when the passion was strong in the relationship. This will definitely be more helpful than to have a two hour conversion only about the issues.
After plenty of research online, I found out that a faster way to fix a relationship is to focus on increasing the passion and connection in your relationship before tackling the problems that separated the both of you. And I can assure you that if you heed my advice before working on existing issues with your ex, it will make the problem solving process a much easier one. Let me use this simple example to illustrate my point.
Just take a moment to recall back to the times when both of you first met. The passion was strong and both of you could do no wrong. Remember the time when your ex turns up half an hour late for your date? You would wait there patiently and stop yourself from texting or calling your ex so that he or she won't have to rush. And when your ex arrives, you greet him or her with a smile and say 'it's ok'.
Half a year into the relationship, you start to get impatient after 5 minutes of waiting. You start to ramble to yourself, 'Why is he/she always late?' You find that you are no longer as patient as you were before and you start to see more and more flaws in your partner.
Am I right? Well this is because, for some of you, as you progress through the journey of your relationship the passion slowly dies off. You start picking out flaws of your partner that you were once ok with. On top of that, you start feeling that your partner isn't the 'perfect' person he or she once was. And finally, both of you reach a stage where you are unhappy and tired of the relationship and you guys break up.
From this example, it is plain to see that the reason you guys started having differences is because the passion in the relationship has died off or isn't strong enough to contain the unhappiness. So, get back the passion in your relationship and you will see that even the biggest problems can be solved easily. This is the key to winning love back by using a faster way to fix a relationship.
So what you can do is to go on a date with your ex and temporarily forget about the issues troubling the both of you. Enjoy yourselves and relive or even revive the times when the passion was strong in the relationship. This will definitely be more helpful than to have a two hour conversion only about the issues.
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