You are stunned and shocked and can't believe what happened.
Your boyfriend, the guy you would do anything for walked out on you and now...
the only thing that you can seem to think about is how can you change his mind.
You know that deep down, there were some problems in the relationship.
You also know that they can be worked out, but it's not going to happen if you cannot find a way to get him back in your life.
You are scared about what might happen.
You really don't want this to be the end.
Is it? I hate to hear stories like this, I really do.
And yet, it seems like they are so common place that it really seems to be almost unavoidable at times.
You probably are finding that your mind is racing and at the same time, you just cannot seem to really think clearly about what is going on.
All that you really know is that if there is a way to get your boyfriend back...
you are more than willing to do whatever you have to make it happen.
So, is there something you can say that will make him change his mind? There is, but before we get into that, there's something that you really need to do first before anything else.
You need to slow down all of your thinking and get a hold of yourself.
If you don't do this, then you probably will not say the right thing to change his mind.
You probably will end up pushing him away from you, even if that is not what you intend to do.
Here's what you need to let your ex boyfriend know: You need to let him know that there is a reason for him to want to come back to you.
And you cannot just count on or hope that he will come back to you just because.
There has to be a really compelling reason for him to want to return.
Not only that, you need to let him know that whatever it was that made him want to leave, you are more than willing to work out, even compromise if you have to.
Lastly, you also need to let him know that you are not going to try and rush things with him.
If he needs some time, then you are willing to let him have what he needs.
There's something else that you need to do as well, though.
While you want to let him know that you can work things out, you also want to let him know that he cannot take you for granted.
If you do allow him to think he can take you for granted and you will wait for him to come back, he's going to take advantage of that more than likely.
Your boyfriend, the guy you would do anything for walked out on you and now...
the only thing that you can seem to think about is how can you change his mind.
You know that deep down, there were some problems in the relationship.
You also know that they can be worked out, but it's not going to happen if you cannot find a way to get him back in your life.
You are scared about what might happen.
You really don't want this to be the end.
Is it? I hate to hear stories like this, I really do.
And yet, it seems like they are so common place that it really seems to be almost unavoidable at times.
You probably are finding that your mind is racing and at the same time, you just cannot seem to really think clearly about what is going on.
All that you really know is that if there is a way to get your boyfriend back...
you are more than willing to do whatever you have to make it happen.
So, is there something you can say that will make him change his mind? There is, but before we get into that, there's something that you really need to do first before anything else.
You need to slow down all of your thinking and get a hold of yourself.
If you don't do this, then you probably will not say the right thing to change his mind.
You probably will end up pushing him away from you, even if that is not what you intend to do.
Here's what you need to let your ex boyfriend know: You need to let him know that there is a reason for him to want to come back to you.
And you cannot just count on or hope that he will come back to you just because.
There has to be a really compelling reason for him to want to return.
Not only that, you need to let him know that whatever it was that made him want to leave, you are more than willing to work out, even compromise if you have to.
Lastly, you also need to let him know that you are not going to try and rush things with him.
If he needs some time, then you are willing to let him have what he needs.
There's something else that you need to do as well, though.
While you want to let him know that you can work things out, you also want to let him know that he cannot take you for granted.
If you do allow him to think he can take you for granted and you will wait for him to come back, he's going to take advantage of that more than likely.
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