I will share a story. Names have been changed. Denise met Eric. They hit it off, he got her number. He seemed like such a great guy. They laughed, and there was chemistry. Eric really liked Denise. He started off with a Good Morning text. Denise thought this was sweet. She was flattered. She replied of course.

A few weeks go by and Denise calls me up. She is distressed. Eric is texting her relentlessly. Sweet things. He misses her. He is thinking of her. Good Mornings. Good nights. He even shared mundane things he is doing during the day. She is annoyed. She wonders does Eric have a life outside of Denise. She doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but the constant texting annoys her. She shared with me she doesn't even want him to touch her anymore.

What just went wrong here? When texing girls remember that mystery and allure is what builds the attraction. If you are texting too often, you are killing the attraction because you have taken the mystery out. If you ever find yourself hearing the words, I really like you but I think we should just be friends, well chances are good you killed the attraction with your obsessive texting

In the beginning like the first few weeks of dating, yes it can be nice and a girl will like it. If you have constantly stayed in contact like texting more than a couple times a day you have shown her you are no challenge. She probably wonders if you do this with all girls you date. She doesn't feel special anymore. It's like giving flowers on valentines day and not other time of the year. It's expected and predictable. Most women would love flowers just out of the blue for no reason. This same concept applies for texting a girl.

If you are texting a girl you like, remember don't go over board. It will kill the attraction. Girls like to feel special and constant contact becomes predictable and doesn't trigger that feeling of excitement in her like it would if it wasn't so easily available.