Ever sat down and thought about what is the best place(s) to meet single women? Off the top of your head you may think €I have to go out to a club or bar to meet women€. While you can very well meet hot women at bars and night clubs, I would recommend against it for a few reasons.
First of all, in clubs, there are about 999 distractions for anyone at any moment. It is almost impossible to discern whether that guy she is with is her friend, brother, boyfriend, husband, etc. There is to much stimuli in clubs and bars for it to be really effective at meeting worthwhile women. The one argument FOR nightclubs and bars is that as a rule, people go to clubs and bars to meet people, which is good, but your chances decline rapidly with the fact there are hundreds of other males there for her to get distracted with.
Also, clubs and bars perpetuate an idea that you have to do the whole buy you a drink, dance, etc idea. This kind of thing becomes monotonous for both parties, and can bring an unwanted predictability to the situation. Also, speaking bluntly, why should you have to buy a woman a drink, etc just to get her to show you the time of day? Superficial women are worthless, not worthwhile, unless you go into the situation to get exactly what you want out of it€¦
So, here are some great places to meet women that don't fall into the typical bar/club scene:
Work
While this may not be a great idea, it most definitely can and does work. You get a good feeling for how the women you work with are, and it can make going to work very, very interesting.
School
This one is kind of typical, but if you take the time to make it work, I find this is one of the easiest ways to just start talking to a hot chick, you can bring up school-related stuff, and you instantly have conversation. Plus, this way they don't think you're some creep. Here are some of the best types of classes to meet worthwhile eligible women:
* Foreign Language
* Art (arty girls are usually freaks)
* Poetry (romantic chicks)
* Sports (daring, outgoing)
Through a GOOD Female Friend
This one works really well too, but with a few caveats. Make sure this mutual friend knows you really, really well, and can find someone who relates to your personality. Also, for gods-sake, make sure this mutual friend isn't interested in you, or else this could end very badly.
Bookstore or Library
Both of these places are good places to meet women, because you know their at least intelligent (you never see any of those club rats sitting in the bookstore). This one can be tricky since they'll probably be busy, but think back to your college days, wouldn't you like to have a little interruption in your study routine?
The Gym
This one can also be great, most chicks who frequent gyms are outgoing, athletic, and love to do fun activities. Be sure to look out for the €dont mess with me€ types, as they think themselves above everyone else and aren't worth the trouble. Most people in gyms are approachable, especially after you see them 4 days a week for months, it's like you already know each other, if not formally.
Church
Please, don't be a douche and go to church just to pick up chicks, it's lame. But, if you are religious, it can be a great place to meet like-minded women who share spirituality and usually have a lot of caring.
Weddings
Wedding Crashers, nuff said. No, but honestly this is a decent place to meet women, you have plenty of conversation starters (how you know the bride and groom, etc).
First of all, in clubs, there are about 999 distractions for anyone at any moment. It is almost impossible to discern whether that guy she is with is her friend, brother, boyfriend, husband, etc. There is to much stimuli in clubs and bars for it to be really effective at meeting worthwhile women. The one argument FOR nightclubs and bars is that as a rule, people go to clubs and bars to meet people, which is good, but your chances decline rapidly with the fact there are hundreds of other males there for her to get distracted with.
Also, clubs and bars perpetuate an idea that you have to do the whole buy you a drink, dance, etc idea. This kind of thing becomes monotonous for both parties, and can bring an unwanted predictability to the situation. Also, speaking bluntly, why should you have to buy a woman a drink, etc just to get her to show you the time of day? Superficial women are worthless, not worthwhile, unless you go into the situation to get exactly what you want out of it€¦
So, here are some great places to meet women that don't fall into the typical bar/club scene:
Work
While this may not be a great idea, it most definitely can and does work. You get a good feeling for how the women you work with are, and it can make going to work very, very interesting.
School
This one is kind of typical, but if you take the time to make it work, I find this is one of the easiest ways to just start talking to a hot chick, you can bring up school-related stuff, and you instantly have conversation. Plus, this way they don't think you're some creep. Here are some of the best types of classes to meet worthwhile eligible women:
* Foreign Language
* Art (arty girls are usually freaks)
* Poetry (romantic chicks)
* Sports (daring, outgoing)
Through a GOOD Female Friend
This one works really well too, but with a few caveats. Make sure this mutual friend knows you really, really well, and can find someone who relates to your personality. Also, for gods-sake, make sure this mutual friend isn't interested in you, or else this could end very badly.
Bookstore or Library
Both of these places are good places to meet women, because you know their at least intelligent (you never see any of those club rats sitting in the bookstore). This one can be tricky since they'll probably be busy, but think back to your college days, wouldn't you like to have a little interruption in your study routine?
The Gym
This one can also be great, most chicks who frequent gyms are outgoing, athletic, and love to do fun activities. Be sure to look out for the €dont mess with me€ types, as they think themselves above everyone else and aren't worth the trouble. Most people in gyms are approachable, especially after you see them 4 days a week for months, it's like you already know each other, if not formally.
Church
Please, don't be a douche and go to church just to pick up chicks, it's lame. But, if you are religious, it can be a great place to meet like-minded women who share spirituality and usually have a lot of caring.
Weddings
Wedding Crashers, nuff said. No, but honestly this is a decent place to meet women, you have plenty of conversation starters (how you know the bride and groom, etc).
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