Hopefully it's no news to you that women fake orgasms.
In fact, the grand majority of women do so.
Now, I know that you don't think any woman you've ever been with has faked it, but believe me when I tell you that there's an extremely high likelihood that at some point in your love-making career, it's happened.
I'm not saying this to take a shot at you or to make you feel bad, I'm simply trying to raise your awareness.
Because with awareness comes change.
The thing is, the common man's conception of a real orgasm has been tainted by the porn industry.
He thinks that if the girl he's with has the same reaction that the girl in the porno has, then she's being pleased.
So he tries to do all the crazy things that the porn guy is doing thinking he's rocking her world.
And that's a big "no no".
Here's what you need to know about porn movies.
Just like other movies, there's some sort of script and director, even when you think it's not scripted.
And the people in these movies are paid actors.
They're being paid to act that way.
Granted, there are the rare movies in which the girl really does orgasm, but they're usually not the most visually exciting.
The position isn't all that complex, there isn't any border-line-violent sex happening, and the girl usually isn't screaming at the top of her lungs.
It's all an act.
And here's how this damages the conceptions of the average guy and how it makes it so easy for women to fake an orgasm and get the guy to actually believe that he satisfied her.
The guy thinks that if the girl in the movie is screaming, "Oh God, I'm coming," it means that she actually IS coming.
So he looks for that in his own experiences.
If the girl he's with let's out some intense moans and screams and says that she's coming, then she must be.
(This is just one example.
We'll cover more later) You may ask, "Why would she fake it, though? Doesn't she want to be pleased?" That is an entirely different topic.
Women, God bless 'em, are extremely sophisticated creatures.
They will sleep with guys that they're not naturally attracted to, and they'll fake an orgasm so they don't hurt his ego.
So, let's talk about the first way women can fake an orgasm: The Leg Shake.
What's interesting about this is that a real orgasm can actually cause her legs to shake...
but just because her legs shake, does not mean that she actually had a real orgasm.
With just a little shake, or tremble of the legs (or maybe even her whole body) and his mind runs wild.
His ego gets massively inflated.
He literally starts talking to himself while he's having sex - in his own mind, of course - and congratulates himself because he thinks that he's God's gift to women.
And she can tell that he's doing it.
So she let's him go about his "business" and he's none the wiser.
In part 2 of this series, we'll talk about the other ways that women fake orgasms and get deeper into the reasons why.
In fact, the grand majority of women do so.
Now, I know that you don't think any woman you've ever been with has faked it, but believe me when I tell you that there's an extremely high likelihood that at some point in your love-making career, it's happened.
I'm not saying this to take a shot at you or to make you feel bad, I'm simply trying to raise your awareness.
Because with awareness comes change.
The thing is, the common man's conception of a real orgasm has been tainted by the porn industry.
He thinks that if the girl he's with has the same reaction that the girl in the porno has, then she's being pleased.
So he tries to do all the crazy things that the porn guy is doing thinking he's rocking her world.
And that's a big "no no".
Here's what you need to know about porn movies.
Just like other movies, there's some sort of script and director, even when you think it's not scripted.
And the people in these movies are paid actors.
They're being paid to act that way.
Granted, there are the rare movies in which the girl really does orgasm, but they're usually not the most visually exciting.
The position isn't all that complex, there isn't any border-line-violent sex happening, and the girl usually isn't screaming at the top of her lungs.
It's all an act.
And here's how this damages the conceptions of the average guy and how it makes it so easy for women to fake an orgasm and get the guy to actually believe that he satisfied her.
The guy thinks that if the girl in the movie is screaming, "Oh God, I'm coming," it means that she actually IS coming.
So he looks for that in his own experiences.
If the girl he's with let's out some intense moans and screams and says that she's coming, then she must be.
(This is just one example.
We'll cover more later) You may ask, "Why would she fake it, though? Doesn't she want to be pleased?" That is an entirely different topic.
Women, God bless 'em, are extremely sophisticated creatures.
They will sleep with guys that they're not naturally attracted to, and they'll fake an orgasm so they don't hurt his ego.
So, let's talk about the first way women can fake an orgasm: The Leg Shake.
What's interesting about this is that a real orgasm can actually cause her legs to shake...
but just because her legs shake, does not mean that she actually had a real orgasm.
With just a little shake, or tremble of the legs (or maybe even her whole body) and his mind runs wild.
His ego gets massively inflated.
He literally starts talking to himself while he's having sex - in his own mind, of course - and congratulates himself because he thinks that he's God's gift to women.
And she can tell that he's doing it.
So she let's him go about his "business" and he's none the wiser.
In part 2 of this series, we'll talk about the other ways that women fake orgasms and get deeper into the reasons why.
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