A break up indeed is a terribleordeal and people who have experienced this can actually tell you the truth.
Though break ups have now become very common, yet people are still not sure as to how they should go about in maintaining a healthy and a peaceful relationship.
Such an abrupt end to a beautiful relationship can actually traumatize a person sometimes, making them feel deserted and lonely.
Sometimes, both the partners do not agree on certain things which call for a break up.
Sometimes, people also start taking each other for granted and call quit; there are myriad reasons, some well defined and some are not.
Let's look at some of the mind games that can help in bringing your beloved ex back to your life once gain: Give It Back to Him / Her- You need to give things back, tit-for-tat.
Everyone feels depressed after a break up, but you must not take things to heart in such a way that your life comes to a stand still.
No matter what, the show must go on.
I don't mean to say that you misbehave with your ex, but whenever you come across your ex, pretend as if you are much better off now and you've made the correct decision.
Your ex will be astounded to see things happening like that.
Behave Normally- You need not grow your beard and look like a sufferer post break up.
Instead behave normally, as you always did.
Don't allow people to sympathize with you, instead socialize, go out with friends, part and have a great time.
Enjoy your freedom.
Go For a Vacation- After a break up, go out on a vacation with friends or family to freshen up your mind.
Your ex would definitely be s\hocked to lean that you've been holidaying, it would make things evident for him/her that you are not giving your ex importance any longer.
This works like magic I tell you.
So go ahead!