Most of us have experienced breaking up with a loved one and just the thought of a breakup can cause you sadness.
If you've suffered through such a breakup you've more than likely looked back over the relationship and realized there were signs along the way but you did not recognize them.
Keeping those thoughts in mind in a different relationship can help you foresee a breakup should you start noticing the same symptoms but make sure you are not making more of the changes than you should.
In some cases you'll start to notice your partner no longer seeks a physical connection with you.
The cuddles and pecks on the cheek suddenly cease to happen.
A decrease in sexual activity is a sure sign your partner is starting to become less interested in you, however if you are attuned to the relationship you'll be able to tell the difference between the normal ebb and flow instead of a complete lack of interest in sexual contact.
Often before an actual breakup occurs you'll notice your partner being a little bit distant with you for apparently no reason.
Small things like holding hands or sitting close on the couch will start to seem like a distant memory.
Signs of affection outside physical touch in the bedroom will sometimes cease all together without your partner even realizing they are withholding affection as subconsciously they have cut off those feelings of love for you.
If it comes to the point where your partner noticeably flinches at your touch or goes out of the way to avoid being close to you, then it time to clear the air.
Before making accusations try to determine if there is any other reason for the decreased amount of interaction before assuming you are headed for a breakup.
There could be an underlying cause.
One can be so lost in thought or preoccupied with another matter that an unexpected touch can be startling.
Sometimes people assume a touch is a prelude to sex and may only know to touch you to lead up the physical interaction.
Your partner might simply just be too tired.
Take all these into consideration before jumping to the conclusion that you are headed for a breakup.
You may so conditioned by your past that you think every change in your partner's behavior indicates a breakup.
Keep a watchful eye on your partner to determine if their attitude is an occasional occurrence or a pattern of avoiding physical or loving contact with you.
More so than loss of physical touch, would be that your partner starts getting caught telling you lies.
Even insignificant seemingly harmless lies can turn into more harmful and damaging lies.
Once again though be sure you are not making more of the issue then you need to as you would most certainly would hate to find out what seemed a lie could have been simply a ruse for planning a surprise celebration instead of an impending news of a breakup.
If you've suffered through such a breakup you've more than likely looked back over the relationship and realized there were signs along the way but you did not recognize them.
Keeping those thoughts in mind in a different relationship can help you foresee a breakup should you start noticing the same symptoms but make sure you are not making more of the changes than you should.
In some cases you'll start to notice your partner no longer seeks a physical connection with you.
The cuddles and pecks on the cheek suddenly cease to happen.
A decrease in sexual activity is a sure sign your partner is starting to become less interested in you, however if you are attuned to the relationship you'll be able to tell the difference between the normal ebb and flow instead of a complete lack of interest in sexual contact.
Often before an actual breakup occurs you'll notice your partner being a little bit distant with you for apparently no reason.
Small things like holding hands or sitting close on the couch will start to seem like a distant memory.
Signs of affection outside physical touch in the bedroom will sometimes cease all together without your partner even realizing they are withholding affection as subconsciously they have cut off those feelings of love for you.
If it comes to the point where your partner noticeably flinches at your touch or goes out of the way to avoid being close to you, then it time to clear the air.
Before making accusations try to determine if there is any other reason for the decreased amount of interaction before assuming you are headed for a breakup.
There could be an underlying cause.
One can be so lost in thought or preoccupied with another matter that an unexpected touch can be startling.
Sometimes people assume a touch is a prelude to sex and may only know to touch you to lead up the physical interaction.
Your partner might simply just be too tired.
Take all these into consideration before jumping to the conclusion that you are headed for a breakup.
You may so conditioned by your past that you think every change in your partner's behavior indicates a breakup.
Keep a watchful eye on your partner to determine if their attitude is an occasional occurrence or a pattern of avoiding physical or loving contact with you.
More so than loss of physical touch, would be that your partner starts getting caught telling you lies.
Even insignificant seemingly harmless lies can turn into more harmful and damaging lies.
Once again though be sure you are not making more of the issue then you need to as you would most certainly would hate to find out what seemed a lie could have been simply a ruse for planning a surprise celebration instead of an impending news of a breakup.
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