"He's got a small willy," my girlfriend said over the phone, reporting on her new boyfriend.
"But he is absolutely brilliant at oral sex, and out of the two, I'd have to say that's more important to me.
" While a big penis is indeed a nice bonus, that's just Mother Nature having a generous day.
Being able to deliver delicious oral sex has nothing to do with being born with a big tongue, it takes skill, and it says a lot about a person.
To be really, really good at giving oral sex, you have to be a generous person who enjoys giving as much as receiving.
It's a sex act where enthusiasm is all, being squeamish spoils everything, and the willingness to take time is paramount.
Get it right and you inspire slavish loyalty, with lust-sick partners looking around worriedly if you so much as lick your lips in view of attractive strangers.
Oral sex is also about power - in a win-win type of way.
Getting someone to lick your bits puts them in a submissive position which used to be thought of as degrading.
But giving great oral sex can put the giver in a power position as well.
According to Wilson, Cleopatra is a reputed to have been a master fellator and rumored to have performed oral on a hundred Roman soldiers in a single night.
Odd that she's remembered more for her haircut and eyebrows given this achievement, but there you go! Breasts, penises, clitorises, and vaginas hog the limelight, but the organ that's probably most appreciated is the tongue.
"But he is absolutely brilliant at oral sex, and out of the two, I'd have to say that's more important to me.
" While a big penis is indeed a nice bonus, that's just Mother Nature having a generous day.
Being able to deliver delicious oral sex has nothing to do with being born with a big tongue, it takes skill, and it says a lot about a person.
To be really, really good at giving oral sex, you have to be a generous person who enjoys giving as much as receiving.
It's a sex act where enthusiasm is all, being squeamish spoils everything, and the willingness to take time is paramount.
Get it right and you inspire slavish loyalty, with lust-sick partners looking around worriedly if you so much as lick your lips in view of attractive strangers.
Oral sex is also about power - in a win-win type of way.
Getting someone to lick your bits puts them in a submissive position which used to be thought of as degrading.
But giving great oral sex can put the giver in a power position as well.
According to Wilson, Cleopatra is a reputed to have been a master fellator and rumored to have performed oral on a hundred Roman soldiers in a single night.
Odd that she's remembered more for her haircut and eyebrows given this achievement, but there you go! Breasts, penises, clitorises, and vaginas hog the limelight, but the organ that's probably most appreciated is the tongue.
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