When you go out to meet girls (or go out to meet a particular girl) how and what you believe about yourself is going to have HUGE impact on how much attraction you can generate.
Luckily, the amount of attraction that guys can generate in girls is not very connected to his looks.
Sure, if she's ONLY looking for some kind of short term, eye-candy based fling, you'll be limited.
But if you want to generate massive, deep and powerful attraction, looks aren't all that important.
Now, I know this is contrary to what a lot of guys think.
The reason is that it can serve as a protective layer of beliefs that keep you from taking action.
Believe it or not, a lot of guys would actually prefer to stay on the sidelines, where it's safe, so long as they have a plausible excuse that sounds like it's not their fault.
If you convince yourself that girls only go for attractive guys that are over a certain height, and you aren't attractive or very tall, then you've got a ready built excuse for NOT taking action.
This allows you to stay safe, NEVER get rejected, without looking like some guys who's petrified of talking girls.
Sure, you talk to girls all the time, but since they ONLY want attractive guys, why bother? At least this is what you tell yourself.
But the truth is that looks aren't all that important to girls.
At least not nearly as important as looks (in girls) are to guys.
Your frame, communication style, and self-confidence are.
And these are based largely on your self conscious beliefs about yourself, with regards to women.
This can be difficult because most of the time our beliefs exist on a subconscious level.
Which means unless you go hunting for them, they can trip you up.
Luckily, there's a simple exercise to find out just what those beliefs are, so you can change them if you need to.
First write down what you'd like to achieve with women.
Be as specific as possible.
Then underneath that, write down every reason you can think of that's keeping you from achieving this.
Don't edit your thoughts, just write down whatever comes to mind.
What you're looking for are any beliefs statements that sound like an internal limitation.
A negative belief about yourself.
Once you've got a few of these, you can systematically go through and destroy them.
The more limiting beliefs about yourself you destroy, the more naturally attractive you'll become.
Pretty soon, you'll just need to "be yourself" and that will be enough to get all the girls you can handle.
Luckily, the amount of attraction that guys can generate in girls is not very connected to his looks.
Sure, if she's ONLY looking for some kind of short term, eye-candy based fling, you'll be limited.
But if you want to generate massive, deep and powerful attraction, looks aren't all that important.
Now, I know this is contrary to what a lot of guys think.
The reason is that it can serve as a protective layer of beliefs that keep you from taking action.
Believe it or not, a lot of guys would actually prefer to stay on the sidelines, where it's safe, so long as they have a plausible excuse that sounds like it's not their fault.
If you convince yourself that girls only go for attractive guys that are over a certain height, and you aren't attractive or very tall, then you've got a ready built excuse for NOT taking action.
This allows you to stay safe, NEVER get rejected, without looking like some guys who's petrified of talking girls.
Sure, you talk to girls all the time, but since they ONLY want attractive guys, why bother? At least this is what you tell yourself.
But the truth is that looks aren't all that important to girls.
At least not nearly as important as looks (in girls) are to guys.
Your frame, communication style, and self-confidence are.
And these are based largely on your self conscious beliefs about yourself, with regards to women.
This can be difficult because most of the time our beliefs exist on a subconscious level.
Which means unless you go hunting for them, they can trip you up.
Luckily, there's a simple exercise to find out just what those beliefs are, so you can change them if you need to.
First write down what you'd like to achieve with women.
Be as specific as possible.
Then underneath that, write down every reason you can think of that's keeping you from achieving this.
Don't edit your thoughts, just write down whatever comes to mind.
What you're looking for are any beliefs statements that sound like an internal limitation.
A negative belief about yourself.
Once you've got a few of these, you can systematically go through and destroy them.
The more limiting beliefs about yourself you destroy, the more naturally attractive you'll become.
Pretty soon, you'll just need to "be yourself" and that will be enough to get all the girls you can handle.
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