- 1). Pick a metal. Both brides and grooms can choose between platinum, yellow gold and white gold for wedding bands. Platinum is hypoallergenic and more durable than gold but shows nicks easier, according to TheKnot.com. Gold withstands wear and tear and is cheaper than platinum, but it can irritate some people's skin.
- 2). Pick a finish. Both brides and grooms can choose to have a brushed finish on their wedding bands. According to WeddingChannel.com, more grooms are deciding to go with engraved patterns on their bands.
- 3). Design a place for stones in your band, if desired. Brides and grooms can include stones in their bands, from traditional diamonds to other gemstones such as sapphires or rubies. More grooms are deciding to include diamonds in their bands, says WeddingChannel.com, often going with a burnished setting so the diamonds don't stick out from the band.
- 4). Write words for an engraving. A short, meaningful engraving on the inside of a wedding band can be the ultimate customization.
- 5). Meet with your jeweler or designer or go online to order. You can decide to use the same jeweler or designer that you used for the engagement ring or research to find a different one. You can also choose an online retailer so you can do all of your customization and ordering from your home computer.
- 6). Discuss your custom elements with your jeweler or designer. When working with a jeweler or designer in person, make sure he understands all of the custom elements you want and have him sketch the ring so you both know what to expect.
- 7). Order your ring. When ordering online, make sure to save any confirmation numbers or e-mails and know the company's return policies, if any. When ordering online or in person, ask when you can expect to receive your ring.
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