It is really true that most divorces and separations could have been prevented if they knew what I have learned.
Yes, you can get your wife back but like anything else it will take some time.
It is really sad that long after the split most people realize that they could have prevented the whole mess.
If you now realize your mistakes, then let me show you some steps you can take that my friend showed me below.
Most men feel like that it is hopeless to get their ex-wife back, but the truth of the matter is, that is not true, you can get her back.
Now that she has had time to think, she is probably thinking to herself that we can work this out.
Time is the essential ingredient here since both of you have been apart.
Now if you are ready to take the time to work out your failures, then we can proceed.
Now that you have pondered in your mind what went wrong and can face your faults both bad and good, you can contact your ex-wife.
One rule to follow, if you have not contacted your ex through this cooling off period then it is time to contact her.
But, if you have been fighting back and forth then I will guarantee you that she will not be glad to hear from you.
What really has happened now is that she probably misses you as much as you miss her.
This is good.
Set up a time to meet with her and when you meet, she will know that you have changed and really do still love her.
Be up front with her and tell her that you made some mistakes and have been working on changing yourself.
What will happen next is that she will either tell you up front that she loves you also or she will flat tell you that she is not interested, it is over.
If she feels like she wants to start over then that is great! But now if she does say no she just wants to move on, then here is where she will see that you have changed.
Keep your cool and tell her that you hope everything works out for her.
By doing this she will already see that you have changed, not only is this good for her but also good for you knowing that maybe inside you are disappointed but really have changed.
Yes, you can get your wife back but like anything else it will take some time.
It is really sad that long after the split most people realize that they could have prevented the whole mess.
If you now realize your mistakes, then let me show you some steps you can take that my friend showed me below.
Most men feel like that it is hopeless to get their ex-wife back, but the truth of the matter is, that is not true, you can get her back.
Now that she has had time to think, she is probably thinking to herself that we can work this out.
Time is the essential ingredient here since both of you have been apart.
Now if you are ready to take the time to work out your failures, then we can proceed.
Now that you have pondered in your mind what went wrong and can face your faults both bad and good, you can contact your ex-wife.
One rule to follow, if you have not contacted your ex through this cooling off period then it is time to contact her.
But, if you have been fighting back and forth then I will guarantee you that she will not be glad to hear from you.
What really has happened now is that she probably misses you as much as you miss her.
This is good.
Set up a time to meet with her and when you meet, she will know that you have changed and really do still love her.
Be up front with her and tell her that you made some mistakes and have been working on changing yourself.
What will happen next is that she will either tell you up front that she loves you also or she will flat tell you that she is not interested, it is over.
If she feels like she wants to start over then that is great! But now if she does say no she just wants to move on, then here is where she will see that you have changed.
Keep your cool and tell her that you hope everything works out for her.
By doing this she will already see that you have changed, not only is this good for her but also good for you knowing that maybe inside you are disappointed but really have changed.
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