Relationships are really all about mental warfare, because the ego gets involved and then the self respect comes along and wants a big say as well! You see relationships really end up breaking because people want control, and no one will settle for that; then you are left wondering why you even broke up in the first place.
While your ex may be acting like he/she doesn't want you back, that is not the case.
Here are 3 dirty psychological tricks that will get your ex back fast...
Reject your ex- Everyone hates rejecting, especially your ex.
The entire time they have been rejecting you and avoiding you, but you need to turn this on him/her.
When you do this you are telling them that you agree with the breakup, and are looking like you are better off now without them.
This will make your ex work hard to get your attention again, and work hard to make you want them.
Show your ex that you are not free anymore- You see, your ex will not know what they had till you remove it-yourself.
You must avoid all contact with your ex, so that they will have time to miss you and think about you.
When you always make yourself readily available he/she will always take you for granted.
Go out and do things, hang out with people, be seen being happy away from your ex, so that they will be forced to see you in a new happy way, and will want you again.
Flirt with others and make your ex madly jealous- making your ex jealous is one of the dirtiest psychological ways to get them back, because it proves they still have feelings for you, and these feelings can be brought on fast.
Flirt with people in front of your ex and you will see him/her burning to see that others desire you, and that you are looking again.