When your partner decides to end your relationship, I'm sure that you'll agree that it hurts.
I don't want you to worry however, although it seems that your world is coming to an end, it can still be put back together quite nicely.
You can learn how to get your ex back, just keep reading.
Right now the best advise that I can provide is for you to NOT let your emotions and sadness take over your life.
Having the feelings that you do right now is quite normal, break ups hurt and turn your whole world upside down, but you can't let this stop you from getting up and doing something about it.
When you have made the decision to get up and do something about getting your ex back, you are already on your way to achieving your goal.
Deciding to take action is truly the hardest part, and once that's done all you need to do is follow a proven plan that has helped thousands of others.
I'm not sure what you have done or not done so far after your ex broke up with you, but in the beginning it's important to stay away from your ex for a bit following the break up.
Even if you are past this stage and you didn't stay away from you ex, that's ok, hopefully too much damage hasn't been done.
By staying away now, you can begin to salvage things.
While your spending time away, you have some important thinking and work to do on yourself.
I'm not placing all the blame on you for everything that went wrong in your relationship, but history has shown, the one who was broken up with usually contributed most of the break up reasons.
Not always, but historically speaking most of the time it is.
You can't focus on your partners problems only your own.
You need to sit down and think of what you were personally responsible for.
What you may of done or didn't do could be almost anything, and I can't tell you what went wrong, but surely if you think about it long enough you'll be able to figure it out.
When you do, it's vital to make any changes, sacrifices, and compromises necessary to ensure that your ex would be happy with you.
If you think that this is too much work, and it may be, don't bother trying to get back with your ex and move onto someone else.
If you truly love your ex and can't even begin to fathom live without him/her, then you have to make these necessary changes.
When your self improvement process is nearly completed, enough time has probably passed to where it's acceptable to contact your ex again.
Now it's important to remember that this is an attempt of reestablishing your communications with him/her.
Right now your not focusing on a full blown attempt of getting back together with your ex.
A telephone call or a friendly email are both good communication efforts.
These shouldn't be anything more than a hello and see how he/she's doing.
After the first contact, take a look and see how it went.
If it seemed to go over well, it should be safe to continue communications.
Still keeping everything friendly and casual.
Right now you have to be "walking on eggshells", this is a delicate time and if you moves things too quickly you could end up smashing everything to pieces.
You need to take things very slowly until a comfort level is reached between the two of you to spend more time together.
Once the two of you are hanging out again a fair amount, it's a good idea to do things that the two of you used to together that have happy memories to go with them.
By showing him/her the new you together with happy memories from before increases your chances of making your ex wonder if leaving you might not have been the best decision.
Your ex may decide as this point to give it another try with you, but this doesn't mean that it's easy sailing for you from here on out.
You can't just go back to the old you that made your ex break up with you.
You need to keep up the changes you made or else your rekindled relationship is sure to fail like it did before.
This approach is designed to focus on the root problems in a relationship.
Go at your ex's pace, and make sure that he/she sees the work that you've done for yourself and getting back together is his/her idea and not yours.
Don't be too pushy or everything that you've done to get to this point will be lost.
I don't want you to worry however, although it seems that your world is coming to an end, it can still be put back together quite nicely.
You can learn how to get your ex back, just keep reading.
Right now the best advise that I can provide is for you to NOT let your emotions and sadness take over your life.
Having the feelings that you do right now is quite normal, break ups hurt and turn your whole world upside down, but you can't let this stop you from getting up and doing something about it.
When you have made the decision to get up and do something about getting your ex back, you are already on your way to achieving your goal.
Deciding to take action is truly the hardest part, and once that's done all you need to do is follow a proven plan that has helped thousands of others.
I'm not sure what you have done or not done so far after your ex broke up with you, but in the beginning it's important to stay away from your ex for a bit following the break up.
Even if you are past this stage and you didn't stay away from you ex, that's ok, hopefully too much damage hasn't been done.
By staying away now, you can begin to salvage things.
While your spending time away, you have some important thinking and work to do on yourself.
I'm not placing all the blame on you for everything that went wrong in your relationship, but history has shown, the one who was broken up with usually contributed most of the break up reasons.
Not always, but historically speaking most of the time it is.
You can't focus on your partners problems only your own.
You need to sit down and think of what you were personally responsible for.
What you may of done or didn't do could be almost anything, and I can't tell you what went wrong, but surely if you think about it long enough you'll be able to figure it out.
When you do, it's vital to make any changes, sacrifices, and compromises necessary to ensure that your ex would be happy with you.
If you think that this is too much work, and it may be, don't bother trying to get back with your ex and move onto someone else.
If you truly love your ex and can't even begin to fathom live without him/her, then you have to make these necessary changes.
When your self improvement process is nearly completed, enough time has probably passed to where it's acceptable to contact your ex again.
Now it's important to remember that this is an attempt of reestablishing your communications with him/her.
Right now your not focusing on a full blown attempt of getting back together with your ex.
A telephone call or a friendly email are both good communication efforts.
These shouldn't be anything more than a hello and see how he/she's doing.
After the first contact, take a look and see how it went.
If it seemed to go over well, it should be safe to continue communications.
Still keeping everything friendly and casual.
Right now you have to be "walking on eggshells", this is a delicate time and if you moves things too quickly you could end up smashing everything to pieces.
You need to take things very slowly until a comfort level is reached between the two of you to spend more time together.
Once the two of you are hanging out again a fair amount, it's a good idea to do things that the two of you used to together that have happy memories to go with them.
By showing him/her the new you together with happy memories from before increases your chances of making your ex wonder if leaving you might not have been the best decision.
Your ex may decide as this point to give it another try with you, but this doesn't mean that it's easy sailing for you from here on out.
You can't just go back to the old you that made your ex break up with you.
You need to keep up the changes you made or else your rekindled relationship is sure to fail like it did before.
This approach is designed to focus on the root problems in a relationship.
Go at your ex's pace, and make sure that he/she sees the work that you've done for yourself and getting back together is his/her idea and not yours.
Don't be too pushy or everything that you've done to get to this point will be lost.
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