Some simple tactics that will help you get your ex husband back and help you get your life back.

If you are feeling lonely and or depressed ,then it is time to take action and rediscover the magic you had in your relationship.

• Do not try and text or call him at this point. Begging him to take you back puts you in a bad light. You only want to contact him when you have sorted yourself out.
• If there was any issue that had to be solved, make sure to fix it.
• Give him the space that he thinks he wants.  Most people like a little space but often do not tell the other person until it becomes an almost overwhelming need. This way he gets to see how life is without you. Often at this point he starts to think twice about breaking up.
• Now is the time to make an effort and go out with your friends. Enjoy the company of your woman friends and have lots of fun and laughter. If he hears about you doing things rather than sitting at home moping, it will give him a chance to remember all the fun you had together.
• Have a really confident attitude, this is a real buzz for guys, and they like confident women and are attracted to them. If necessary get help by reading self help books. There are many different ones that will show you how to build self esteem and confidence.
• Take this opportunity to spoil yourself. Buy those new clothes you thought were too expensive and feel good about yourself.

When you are feeling good you could contact him and suggest getting together for a coffee. You want to keep the tone light and not push getting back together. You could give him a hint that you still love him. It is then about patience and waiting for him to come to you