I have a girlfriend who has the very annoying habit of not letting me finish what I'm saying and it drives me to such lengths of just holding my tongue from time to time. When it comes down to it there are obviously ways around the whole episode but you try living with someone who finishes all your sentences and not in a way that is cute like twins, but in a way that gripes you to your very bones.
This got me to thinking that there must be some very annoying habits out there that drive all of you crazy and if there is any way in which you find your way out of them then well done because the rest of us have to tiptoe around. Communication is obviously the best way of getting rid of an innocuous problem like this but you try telling a woman something like that and they will just make it twice as bad.
Sarcastic comments start to come into play and when you ask her opinion on a subject you end up with a battle for supremacy that you didn't even start. So how on earth do you get around these trivial problems that when you describe them seem so meaningless? Well I am yet to find a way around mine, but surely there have to be better ways than not speaking at all I must think.
So that led me to thinking about all the other problems people might have, little and trivial issues but annoying nonetheless and in a way it becomes worse because you cannot explain them to anyone without feeling just a tad pathetic at moaning over something so small. Fear not because you have found an aide and whatever it is there may be a problem with remember two simple things.
There are plenty more fish in the sea! That's a joke by the way, but when it comes down to it there must be no break up over something so trivial. Granted if there are lots of little trivial things but if there are just one or two then it really isn't worth getting yourself in a huff about. You are much better off just working on the issues you have and getting yourself out of trouble that way, otherwise you may end up with more problems than you started with. So whatever it is deal with it.
This got me to thinking that there must be some very annoying habits out there that drive all of you crazy and if there is any way in which you find your way out of them then well done because the rest of us have to tiptoe around. Communication is obviously the best way of getting rid of an innocuous problem like this but you try telling a woman something like that and they will just make it twice as bad.
Sarcastic comments start to come into play and when you ask her opinion on a subject you end up with a battle for supremacy that you didn't even start. So how on earth do you get around these trivial problems that when you describe them seem so meaningless? Well I am yet to find a way around mine, but surely there have to be better ways than not speaking at all I must think.
So that led me to thinking about all the other problems people might have, little and trivial issues but annoying nonetheless and in a way it becomes worse because you cannot explain them to anyone without feeling just a tad pathetic at moaning over something so small. Fear not because you have found an aide and whatever it is there may be a problem with remember two simple things.
There are plenty more fish in the sea! That's a joke by the way, but when it comes down to it there must be no break up over something so trivial. Granted if there are lots of little trivial things but if there are just one or two then it really isn't worth getting yourself in a huff about. You are much better off just working on the issues you have and getting yourself out of trouble that way, otherwise you may end up with more problems than you started with. So whatever it is deal with it.
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