The pain and sadness of a breakup can feel overwhelming.
It's a shock to suddenly go from sharing your life with your loved one to suddenly being alone.
It's hard to let go of a comfortable and familiar life, even if it wasn't perfect.
Do you truly feel in your heart that you'd like to get your ex boyfriend back? If a reunion is what you desire, then it's important that you avoid the common mistakes almost every woman makes when trying to win an ex boyfriend back.
Feeling frantic to get your ex boyfriend back can cause you to act in ways you normally wouldn't.
Remember that your ex knows you better than anyone and can tell when you're acting the slightest bit desperate.
Becoming more distant is how your ex will react to this type of behavior.
It's a natural human reaction for your ex boyfriend to pull back when you push.
Desperate behavior would include showing up where he is, calling constantly, love letters, apologizing for everything and so on.
You must stop this type of behavior its only making the situation worse by pushing him away.
Do the opposite.
Don't contact your ex boyfriend for at least a few weeks, maybe a month or more.
You can use this time off to improve your life, reconnect with friends and family, etc.
Not contacting your ex for a while is going to be tough so make sure you keep yourself busy doing positive activities.
Your ex will see that you're not longer throwing yourself at him.
Neediness is an unattractive quality and now that is gone.
With the pressure gone he will naturally start missing you.
Remember, the key is to work with human nature rather than against it.
Couples get back together every day and so can you.
It's going to be a challenge not to start acting pushy again.
That's why it's so important to have clear guidance that can lead you through this difficult experience and help you get your ex boyfriend back as quickly as possible.