Sometimes nothing seems to go right in bed! It can often feel like you are doing everything right, but for some reason she never seems to get close to orgasm.
This can be frustrating for guys as it can make you believe that there is something wrong with your technique or, even worse, yourself.
While this can seem like a scary thing, luckily there are lots of little things that you can do to make it far more likely that she will orgasm.
While many guys do not know this, foreplay has begun long before the two of you are in bed together.
In fact it began as soon as you started the date.
How to Have Great Sex The key to great sex is the ability to make sure that everything you do together is erotic and exciting.
This is often tough for men as we are generally discouraged from showing our sexual side in public.
While you don't want to go too far and drool over her the entire date, being more sexual in the right way allows you to begin foreplay anywhere.
In the winter, women wear a lot of clothing and this gives you a slip your hand inside and caress her without anyone even noticing.
This secretive part is the key to being more sexual, as a sexy secret between the two of you is far more erotic than a grope in a public place.
Similarly a whispered promise of something sexual is far more exciting than something than the same thing spoken aloud where anyone can hear.
How to Make Her More Orgasmic The other key to making your girlfriend want you more and make her more orgasmic is to encourage her to be more sexual.
Simply putting her hand on your body increases the sexual tension massively.
Whenever she touches you in a sexual way, many guys make a mistake and put her down for it (Usually by hissing 'not here').
This is one of many mistakes that guys make that make her lack confidence in his sexuality.
Therefore guys can immediately distinguish by increasing their sexual vibe every time she is sexual with you.
By doing this you are encouraging her to be sexual around you and showing her that you are not afraid of her sexuality, both of which are amazingly attractive for women.
Making Sex Better for Her By now, it shouldn't come as a shocking revelation that she wants sex as much as you do.
The key thing that should be added to this statement is that she wants sex in a different way to you.
She wants the whole experience, from date to bed room to be sexy, unpredictable and exciting.
By giving her this you are well on your way to becoming the greatest lover ever and making her deepest sexual fantasies come true.