• A diva invitation should have a diva attitude to set the tone for the party.party invitation image by robert mobley from Fotolia.com
  
  A diva birthday party involves directing all attention to the birthday girl. The spotlight theme will need to be apparent on the invitation as well, so guests are aware that the central focus of the party will be in-arguably on the birthday diva. Wording must be key so that guests understand this fun and daring theme.
  
  

Her Highness

• Refer to the birthday individual with an air of royalty. For example, write, "Her Highness Princess Audrey requests your presence at her diva birthday party," or "Queen Sara demands your presence at her party to celebrate the day of her birth." Don't be afraid to be forward, demanding and pushy, as a diva is someone who always gets what she wants and her way is the only way. Use this theme playfully in the wording of the invitation.
  
  

Celebrity

• A diva will often give herself to celebrity status, and this theme can be used within the birthday invitation wording. Turn the party into a red carpet event like the Oscars or the Grammys. For example, write in the invitation, "Join Ms. Baker in celebrating her birthday, red carpet style, at 331 Olmstead Dr., also known as Starlet Avenue." Another option would be, "Ms. Baker requests your presence as she celebrates her birthday. Please beware of the paparazzi that will surely be waiting at the front gates."
  
  

VIP

• Utilize the exclusivity and prestige that comes with partaking in a diva's birthday celebration. Format the invitation to appear as if someone got the guest's name onto a VIP party list and thus should feel privileged to be included in the event. For example, write, "You made the cut! You have been selected as one of Marie's personal guests to not only attend her birthday celebration but come as a member of her exclusive VIP list. Please RSVP no later than two weeks prior the event."