As we go through the years, we change constantly and it would be wonderful if our friends could be there with us as we do.
One of the key successes for a relationship is our adaptability to change with our peers.
This way, we don't drift apart from them, and no matter what we do, we in turn become part of their lives and get to preserve our friendship with them.
A lot of times, some of our friends seem to stray away from us because of the busy schedule that school or work brings.
But at times, you know that you're in the right circle and you've found your friends when you still have that connection even after all the months of not seeing each other.
Even though your best friend and you haven't spoken to each other for months, you haven't grown apart you just had a lot of catching up to do over dinner perhaps.
As we add years to our lives, we tend to find our identity and we develop our personality and individuality, as opposed to when we were still high school.
Sometimes we don't keep in touch with our friends anymore since some of us have completely different interests now.
Some would like to go out and party a lot and some just want to stay home or go to the mall.
Or perhaps, we just run out of energy to do the things we usually love doing.
In the past, we were focused mainly on how to belong, and some peers were like a cult giving you only two options; either you're with them or your heads gets cut off.
But once you've found yourself amidst the flock, sometimes you may realize that your friends and your newly found self are clashing.
Then some comes along, promising that you'll meet lots of people coming from different backgrounds and interest.
Of course, some days can be a drag, and its human nature for us to mingle and find a friend or two in places as one of our survival techniques.
Some may have found new friends that led them to leave their old friends; others may have found that they don't have a connection with their block mates in work, so they tend to become closer to their old circle.
Some are lucky enough; not only keep bridges strong but they also build new ones and don't burn the old.
One of the key successes for a relationship is our adaptability to change with our peers.
This way, we don't drift apart from them, and no matter what we do, we in turn become part of their lives and get to preserve our friendship with them.
A lot of times, some of our friends seem to stray away from us because of the busy schedule that school or work brings.
But at times, you know that you're in the right circle and you've found your friends when you still have that connection even after all the months of not seeing each other.
Even though your best friend and you haven't spoken to each other for months, you haven't grown apart you just had a lot of catching up to do over dinner perhaps.
As we add years to our lives, we tend to find our identity and we develop our personality and individuality, as opposed to when we were still high school.
Sometimes we don't keep in touch with our friends anymore since some of us have completely different interests now.
Some would like to go out and party a lot and some just want to stay home or go to the mall.
Or perhaps, we just run out of energy to do the things we usually love doing.
In the past, we were focused mainly on how to belong, and some peers were like a cult giving you only two options; either you're with them or your heads gets cut off.
But once you've found yourself amidst the flock, sometimes you may realize that your friends and your newly found self are clashing.
Then some comes along, promising that you'll meet lots of people coming from different backgrounds and interest.
Of course, some days can be a drag, and its human nature for us to mingle and find a friend or two in places as one of our survival techniques.
Some may have found new friends that led them to leave their old friends; others may have found that they don't have a connection with their block mates in work, so they tend to become closer to their old circle.
Some are lucky enough; not only keep bridges strong but they also build new ones and don't burn the old.
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