Chemistry!
Communication!
Money!
The first step to returning the magic is too get down to business. Yup! you heard me.
Whoopy!
Find time to schedule in advance a retreat that can shelter you and your interest from disturbance. If you can afford to take a cruise or just a Sunday afternoon in the park. Do what you did when you were free from all that nonsense of running your life. Bills,Kids,Work,Extended family put them on Hold get back to the roots. The core of your relationship... Chemistry. Let the sparks fly.
Couples these days get caught up in what I call McDonald's mentality. Which is I want it fast and I want it Now. There is no quick fix to relationships. A level head, patience and compromise need to be the focus.
Determine everything that is going on in each of you lives. Feel the emotions that your partner is going through and realize that your not alone. You have each other to turn to when the pressure gets to bad. I am always amazed but never surprised at what happens when minds come together. Aim to please, expecting nothing in return but your partners commitment to honor you personality.
Last but not least the big M-o-n-e-y! So many couples fall apart fighting over money. I am not here to say let it go but the opposite. Get it right! Budget,Budget Budget! Don't overspend to keep up with the Jones'. They are not going to make your payments. Plan your future based on honest foreseeable income. There are many things to help keep a family budget in-line. But mostly it comes down to recognizing your income and purchasing in you means.
The last thing you want is Great chemistry wonderful communication and No Money to do anything. Don't be afraid to increase your skills in the work place.Talk to each other and set a schedule that builds your resume.
Relationships require work respect and commitment. Don't freak out every time there is a wrinkle in life. Get used to it and rely on your partner to hold your feet on the ground .
Communication!
Money!
The first step to returning the magic is too get down to business. Yup! you heard me.
Whoopy!
Find time to schedule in advance a retreat that can shelter you and your interest from disturbance. If you can afford to take a cruise or just a Sunday afternoon in the park. Do what you did when you were free from all that nonsense of running your life. Bills,Kids,Work,Extended family put them on Hold get back to the roots. The core of your relationship... Chemistry. Let the sparks fly.
Couples these days get caught up in what I call McDonald's mentality. Which is I want it fast and I want it Now. There is no quick fix to relationships. A level head, patience and compromise need to be the focus.
Determine everything that is going on in each of you lives. Feel the emotions that your partner is going through and realize that your not alone. You have each other to turn to when the pressure gets to bad. I am always amazed but never surprised at what happens when minds come together. Aim to please, expecting nothing in return but your partners commitment to honor you personality.
Last but not least the big M-o-n-e-y! So many couples fall apart fighting over money. I am not here to say let it go but the opposite. Get it right! Budget,Budget Budget! Don't overspend to keep up with the Jones'. They are not going to make your payments. Plan your future based on honest foreseeable income. There are many things to help keep a family budget in-line. But mostly it comes down to recognizing your income and purchasing in you means.
The last thing you want is Great chemistry wonderful communication and No Money to do anything. Don't be afraid to increase your skills in the work place.Talk to each other and set a schedule that builds your resume.
Relationships require work respect and commitment. Don't freak out every time there is a wrinkle in life. Get used to it and rely on your partner to hold your feet on the ground .
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