Nobody gets married to be lonely, yet millions of married people find out that they are sitting in marriages and are some of the loneliest people in the world.
They didn't start out that way.
Actually, they started out loving each other and used to hate the times when they were apart.
However, over the course of time, something changed.
Instead of growing closer they grow apart.
It's really not that hard with all the pressures in marriage.
A lot of women expect to be able to fix anything and everything that comes along in their marriage.
Nothing is supposed to come between you and your spouse and everything must be compatible, or you don't fit that "perfect" model of what a marriage should be.
Well, that's not the way it works.
You see, there is no handbook on how to do it right, and many marriages on the right course make a wrong turn and end up headed for failure.
Not long into it the ugly d-word starts creeping into the conversations - Divorce! Soon thereafter, all the dreams and ideals are gone.
It always seems to happen so fast.
If this story sounds familiar to you and now you find yourself wanting your ex-husband back, you should ask yourself why? What changed? Let me try and guess.
You thought you made a mistake and settled down too early before you could experience all the wonderful things in life and about being single.
However, now that you're single you don't see all those wonderful things happening, do you? And you miss him, of course.
Attitude is everything in a relationship.
Your attitude can make your spouse happy or ruin their day.
If you lived your marriage feeling down and out because you thought that you were missing out on something then your ex-husband probably felt those vibes and felt down and out as well.
But, the thing you need to remember is, you did both get married, so there was love and good times between you two, so you still have a good chance of getting it back! Now that you know you made a mistake it's time for you to make a plan to get your ex-husband back - before he moves on to someone else!
They didn't start out that way.
Actually, they started out loving each other and used to hate the times when they were apart.
However, over the course of time, something changed.
Instead of growing closer they grow apart.
It's really not that hard with all the pressures in marriage.
A lot of women expect to be able to fix anything and everything that comes along in their marriage.
Nothing is supposed to come between you and your spouse and everything must be compatible, or you don't fit that "perfect" model of what a marriage should be.
Well, that's not the way it works.
You see, there is no handbook on how to do it right, and many marriages on the right course make a wrong turn and end up headed for failure.
Not long into it the ugly d-word starts creeping into the conversations - Divorce! Soon thereafter, all the dreams and ideals are gone.
It always seems to happen so fast.
If this story sounds familiar to you and now you find yourself wanting your ex-husband back, you should ask yourself why? What changed? Let me try and guess.
You thought you made a mistake and settled down too early before you could experience all the wonderful things in life and about being single.
However, now that you're single you don't see all those wonderful things happening, do you? And you miss him, of course.
Attitude is everything in a relationship.
Your attitude can make your spouse happy or ruin their day.
If you lived your marriage feeling down and out because you thought that you were missing out on something then your ex-husband probably felt those vibes and felt down and out as well.
But, the thing you need to remember is, you did both get married, so there was love and good times between you two, so you still have a good chance of getting it back! Now that you know you made a mistake it's time for you to make a plan to get your ex-husband back - before he moves on to someone else!
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