Some may laugh at the idea of premature ejaculation simply because it has never happened to them.
But many stories have been shared online in forums and blogs that teach us that there is really nothing funny about it.
If it happens once, maybe it's something a man can just shrug off and he moves on.
But many men all across the world suffer from instance after instance of this happening to them and they're looking for answers.
The effects can be devastating.
For example, if a man is in a relationship and the time comes for the couple to finally have sexual intercourse after waiting for - in this example - over a year for the right time and the right closeness to develop, there are expectations.
The couple is completely in love and looking forward to an intimate experience to finally become "one" and show each other their souls.
Then...
OOPS! And it's over.
It's no laughing matter as both parties are left with unfulfilled expectations.
The woman is disappointed.
The man is not only disappointed, but is left with a wide range of negative emotions: embarrassment at it happening, guilt over allowing it to happen, and fear and anxiety as he wonders why it happened - and if it's going to happen again.
This can create a tension in the relationship, and a giant Elephant in the Room.
Even after the close couple discusses and communicates with each other over the incident, they both can't help but think about it going into the next attempt at intercourse.
This taints the experience for both parties.
What was supposed to be a beautiful thing has now been replaced with a "test", and much of the positive anticipation has been replaced with negative pressure.
Other areas of the man's life can easily become affected by this, especially if the scenario above is a reality.
Even when he's not in the presence of his partner, it runs over and over in his mind as he replays the moment, wondering what he "needs" to do differently next time.
He can agonize over this while at work, causing his job performance to suffer.
All areas of his life become consumed by this.
So is it a joke? Absolutely not.
Thankfully for these men, there is much more awareness now than there has ever been in the past.
Herbal remedies, physical exercises, and prescription medication is available to those who seek it.
We can only be supportive of curing this condition once and for all.
But many stories have been shared online in forums and blogs that teach us that there is really nothing funny about it.
If it happens once, maybe it's something a man can just shrug off and he moves on.
But many men all across the world suffer from instance after instance of this happening to them and they're looking for answers.
The effects can be devastating.
For example, if a man is in a relationship and the time comes for the couple to finally have sexual intercourse after waiting for - in this example - over a year for the right time and the right closeness to develop, there are expectations.
The couple is completely in love and looking forward to an intimate experience to finally become "one" and show each other their souls.
Then...
OOPS! And it's over.
It's no laughing matter as both parties are left with unfulfilled expectations.
The woman is disappointed.
The man is not only disappointed, but is left with a wide range of negative emotions: embarrassment at it happening, guilt over allowing it to happen, and fear and anxiety as he wonders why it happened - and if it's going to happen again.
This can create a tension in the relationship, and a giant Elephant in the Room.
Even after the close couple discusses and communicates with each other over the incident, they both can't help but think about it going into the next attempt at intercourse.
This taints the experience for both parties.
What was supposed to be a beautiful thing has now been replaced with a "test", and much of the positive anticipation has been replaced with negative pressure.
Other areas of the man's life can easily become affected by this, especially if the scenario above is a reality.
Even when he's not in the presence of his partner, it runs over and over in his mind as he replays the moment, wondering what he "needs" to do differently next time.
He can agonize over this while at work, causing his job performance to suffer.
All areas of his life become consumed by this.
So is it a joke? Absolutely not.
Thankfully for these men, there is much more awareness now than there has ever been in the past.
Herbal remedies, physical exercises, and prescription medication is available to those who seek it.
We can only be supportive of curing this condition once and for all.
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