Girls... Their tantrums are endless. But, we still love them. They're cute, loving and supportive. If you recently broke up with your girlfriend, I'm sure you're missing the pampering; how she insisted on spending the entire day with you, got jealous when you spoke to other girls, or the way she turned the whole world upside down if you were hurt and worried. The routines you both chalked out together are unforgettable. And today, when you bump into her at various places, you only wish things had not ended so abruptly.
Are you giving up already?
If you miss your girlfriend and long to get back with her, take our advice: go ahead and do it. Girls are complicated to understand. But you need not worry. I will guide you through the process. I have listed below some things to do to get your girlfriend back.
5 Killer Ways to Get Your Girlfriend Back
1. Maintain Distance
Huh... The article title reads "How to get your girlfriend back after a break-up" and I start by digressing from the topic. However, this is the first step to getting her back.
The break-up is devastating, but please don't become a cry baby and cling to her. Neither should you plead with her to get back together. Be cool and behave as though you are over the relationship. It will arouse curiosity in her and make her think about you. The more she thinks about you, the greater your chances of rekindling the lost love. So yes, what will maintaining distance include? No text messages, no phones calls, no emails and no Facebook.
2. Live Life King Size
Enjoy your bachelorhood. Live your life. Spend more time with family and friends. Don't ever make the mistake of moving away from mutual friends. They act as the perfect intermediaries between you and your ex-girlfriend, conveying information about the happenings in the life of your ex-girlfriend to you, and vice versa. It will also allow you to know if she has moved on or not. Work out and build the fit body she will envy from afar. Dress well and smartly.
Each of us has some weaknesses. She pointed out many of them during the heated argument before the break-up. Take the criticism positively and work on your weaknesses. You have to indirectly prove to her that she made the wrong decision. You can even start mingling with other girls. It may make her jealous. However, don't flirt with every second girl. It may send across a message that you are not interested.
3. Apologize
As far as ignoring is concerned, keep it to the first two weeks. Exceeding that might make her think you are arrogant. Bitter accusation is a common characteristic of every break-up. The best way to initiate communication is to say sorry. You can meet face-to-face or say it over a text message, a call or an email. It doesn't matter whose fault it is; you have to apologize for the roughness of the fight.
4. Communicate with each other
Now that you have broken the ice with an apology, you can start communicating with her casually. Occasionally, send her simple text messages like "Hey, what's up?" or "How are you doing?". Use poems to get your girlfriend back and send them via emails or social networking sites. The poems should be generalized and not personal or else she will guess your attempts at trying to get back to her. Wish her well on her birthday. These small efforts will make her realize that even though you are not together, you still care. It may be enough to spark her interest again.
5. Try building on your friendship
This is an important step in getting your girlfriend back. After all, every relationship starts with "being friends" and culminates in "being more than just friends". Your friendship should be free of jealousy, possessiveness and dominance. Once you become close, you could give her hints that you still have feelings for her and then wait for her reply.
Are you giving up already?
If you miss your girlfriend and long to get back with her, take our advice: go ahead and do it. Girls are complicated to understand. But you need not worry. I will guide you through the process. I have listed below some things to do to get your girlfriend back.
5 Killer Ways to Get Your Girlfriend Back
1. Maintain Distance
Huh... The article title reads "How to get your girlfriend back after a break-up" and I start by digressing from the topic. However, this is the first step to getting her back.
The break-up is devastating, but please don't become a cry baby and cling to her. Neither should you plead with her to get back together. Be cool and behave as though you are over the relationship. It will arouse curiosity in her and make her think about you. The more she thinks about you, the greater your chances of rekindling the lost love. So yes, what will maintaining distance include? No text messages, no phones calls, no emails and no Facebook.
2. Live Life King Size
Enjoy your bachelorhood. Live your life. Spend more time with family and friends. Don't ever make the mistake of moving away from mutual friends. They act as the perfect intermediaries between you and your ex-girlfriend, conveying information about the happenings in the life of your ex-girlfriend to you, and vice versa. It will also allow you to know if she has moved on or not. Work out and build the fit body she will envy from afar. Dress well and smartly.
Each of us has some weaknesses. She pointed out many of them during the heated argument before the break-up. Take the criticism positively and work on your weaknesses. You have to indirectly prove to her that she made the wrong decision. You can even start mingling with other girls. It may make her jealous. However, don't flirt with every second girl. It may send across a message that you are not interested.
3. Apologize
As far as ignoring is concerned, keep it to the first two weeks. Exceeding that might make her think you are arrogant. Bitter accusation is a common characteristic of every break-up. The best way to initiate communication is to say sorry. You can meet face-to-face or say it over a text message, a call or an email. It doesn't matter whose fault it is; you have to apologize for the roughness of the fight.
4. Communicate with each other
Now that you have broken the ice with an apology, you can start communicating with her casually. Occasionally, send her simple text messages like "Hey, what's up?" or "How are you doing?". Use poems to get your girlfriend back and send them via emails or social networking sites. The poems should be generalized and not personal or else she will guess your attempts at trying to get back to her. Wish her well on her birthday. These small efforts will make her realize that even though you are not together, you still care. It may be enough to spark her interest again.
5. Try building on your friendship
This is an important step in getting your girlfriend back. After all, every relationship starts with "being friends" and culminates in "being more than just friends". Your friendship should be free of jealousy, possessiveness and dominance. Once you become close, you could give her hints that you still have feelings for her and then wait for her reply.
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