Here's how to get back an ex in a situation that is not uncommon these days.
Fred works long hours and Sally doesn't feel he is there for her.
Sally spends all of her time meeting the needs of the children and Fred feels that she doesn't have time for his needs.
Can this relationship be saved? Should it be saved? Where do you go from here? In a case like this, a decision has to be made as to whether the relationship is worth saving.
Almost every relationship can be saved with enough hard work, but both parties have to decide they want it to work.
If one partner has opted out and doesn't want back in, there's little hope for the relationship.
A lot of people stay in relationships because of convenience or because of the children.
Neither reason is good enough.
It takes a commitment by both parties before it's savable.
Quite often the biggest problem is that the symptoms of the problem are confused with the problem itself.
For instance, it is often believed that an affair caused a break up, when the affair was only a symptom.
Lack of intimacy in a marriage can often lead to one partner straying.
If you do not deal with the lack of intimacy in the primary relationship, you will be hard pressed to keep the problem from popping up as an affair or in some other form such as pornography.
If, on the other hand, you deal with core issues rather than symptoms, you have a great chance of keeping the relationship in tact.
Once the core problems have been identified, both partners can begin to talk as well as listen to one another.
When both parties can open up like this it strengthens their bond and opens up the conversation to honest exchange and creates a real chance to improve the relationship.
With the problems in the relationship revealed, you now have a chance to create an ongoing plan to resolve them.
Pretty soon you no longer have to worry about how to get back an ex.