Some people love to practice BDSM in the bedroom with either partner as the dominant, but there are some who practice BDSM and fetish lifestyle together too, and it incorporates into every manner of their lives, and not just the bedroom. Usually one is the dominant partner, and the other is the submissive partner, but even when only one partner is the dominant one, there are times when the submissive partner may be "ordered" to take on a dominant role, but then later the dominant partner will retake the dominant position.
Thus it is common to see a fem domme and a submissive husband together, where the wife spanks the husband, or she is his dominant mistress no matter where they are or what the occasion is. This is not to say that she will spank him in public, unless they are at a play party or at fetish clubs and such, but that she is definitely the dominant woman in the relationship. Most husbands are very attentive to their wives, but he will do it to a fault, just because of who she is, and if one were to watch very carefully, there would be a lot of hints to pick up on the fact that she's a domme and he's submissive. For instance, there may the looks she gives him, and best yet his reaction to the looks. It is often very evident that you are watching BDSM and fetish lifestyle if you know what to look for.
Perhaps when they are served their meals at a restaurant, he waits to pick up his fork until she does so because she has told him that he's never to eat unless she does? Sexy dominant women also have a certain air about them that is often unmistakable, thus it's always fun to look around and see if one can spot them. Some, of course, are much easier to find than others. For instance it's very difficult for a rubberist to hide the fact that they love rubber since they may be wearing rubber as part of a "straight" outfit but often they practice the love of rubber by underdressing in it. This is not to say though that a domineering fat woman is always going to be a domme, for there is often a vast difference between the two, and one must be careful to discern which is which if one is seeking a femme domme. BDSM and fetish lifestyle are definitely interesting, but care must be taken to protect the innocent.
Thus it is common to see a fem domme and a submissive husband together, where the wife spanks the husband, or she is his dominant mistress no matter where they are or what the occasion is. This is not to say that she will spank him in public, unless they are at a play party or at fetish clubs and such, but that she is definitely the dominant woman in the relationship. Most husbands are very attentive to their wives, but he will do it to a fault, just because of who she is, and if one were to watch very carefully, there would be a lot of hints to pick up on the fact that she's a domme and he's submissive. For instance, there may the looks she gives him, and best yet his reaction to the looks. It is often very evident that you are watching BDSM and fetish lifestyle if you know what to look for.
Perhaps when they are served their meals at a restaurant, he waits to pick up his fork until she does so because she has told him that he's never to eat unless she does? Sexy dominant women also have a certain air about them that is often unmistakable, thus it's always fun to look around and see if one can spot them. Some, of course, are much easier to find than others. For instance it's very difficult for a rubberist to hide the fact that they love rubber since they may be wearing rubber as part of a "straight" outfit but often they practice the love of rubber by underdressing in it. This is not to say though that a domineering fat woman is always going to be a domme, for there is often a vast difference between the two, and one must be careful to discern which is which if one is seeking a femme domme. BDSM and fetish lifestyle are definitely interesting, but care must be taken to protect the innocent.
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