How To Get Pregnant - 4 Ways That Negative Thinking Might Be Stopping You From Conceiving
If you are trying to get pregnant and can't, it really hurts.
I tried for over two years and was unable, until I found a method that worked for me.
If you've had problems in your past, that doesn't mean that you will not be able to get pregnant.
I know women who have had multiple miscarriages who were able to deliver their babies and now have beautiful families.
I have a friend who had IVF and IUI procedures done that didn't work, and she got pregnant.
And I know many women in their late 30's and early 40's who were terrified that their baby years were behind them, but they were wrong.
If you're having problems, and you have ruled out medical complications by a visit to your doctor, take a little while and see if any of these things describe you.
1) You think you can't get pregnant anymore.
Women who have had problems in the past tend to believe that "That's it, I'll never be able to get pregnant.
" In psychology, they call this learned helplessness: because of previous attempts that failed, people just decide they can't do something and stop trying.
Don't let this negative thinking trap keep you from keeping trying.
Instead of dwelling on all the times you weren't able to get pregnant, try to think about how wonderful it will be to be a mother - how wonderful it will be to hold a baby in your arms! I can tell you from experience, that you can get pregnant - and there are ways that you can do it within just a few months.
2) Don't trust in a few goofy remedies you read on the internet.
There are tons of articles on the internet about "Have sex in this position and you'll get pregnant!" While there are some things you'll want to do after intercourse to increase your chances of conceiving (like elevating your legs so the sperm goes the right way, in, not out), these things really only work to help women who had an excellent chance of conceiving anyway.
Things like sexual positions aren't going to work for someone who is having real problems.
There are several natural and holistic ways out there that can definitely increase your chances.
3) You think you're too old to get pregnant.
There is a lie that the media and our society spreads that says women can't get pregnant after 35 (or 36, or 38, or some other age, depending on who you're talking to) without serious drugs and medical help.
This is wrong.
Statistically it is more difficult for women in this age bracket, but there are millions of women every year who conceive in their 40's and have healthy, beautiful babies.
4) Don't give up, your pregnancy might be right around the corner.
I know it's tough to keep trying things that don't work.
And if people have told you it's not going to happen for you, don't listen.
I know several women who were told it would be impossible to have children, and less than a year later they gave birth to healthy babies.
In my own case, I had almost given up hope when I found a resource that helped me.
I tried for over two years and was unable, until I found a method that worked for me.
If you've had problems in your past, that doesn't mean that you will not be able to get pregnant.
I know women who have had multiple miscarriages who were able to deliver their babies and now have beautiful families.
I have a friend who had IVF and IUI procedures done that didn't work, and she got pregnant.
And I know many women in their late 30's and early 40's who were terrified that their baby years were behind them, but they were wrong.
If you're having problems, and you have ruled out medical complications by a visit to your doctor, take a little while and see if any of these things describe you.
1) You think you can't get pregnant anymore.
Women who have had problems in the past tend to believe that "That's it, I'll never be able to get pregnant.
" In psychology, they call this learned helplessness: because of previous attempts that failed, people just decide they can't do something and stop trying.
Don't let this negative thinking trap keep you from keeping trying.
Instead of dwelling on all the times you weren't able to get pregnant, try to think about how wonderful it will be to be a mother - how wonderful it will be to hold a baby in your arms! I can tell you from experience, that you can get pregnant - and there are ways that you can do it within just a few months.
2) Don't trust in a few goofy remedies you read on the internet.
There are tons of articles on the internet about "Have sex in this position and you'll get pregnant!" While there are some things you'll want to do after intercourse to increase your chances of conceiving (like elevating your legs so the sperm goes the right way, in, not out), these things really only work to help women who had an excellent chance of conceiving anyway.
Things like sexual positions aren't going to work for someone who is having real problems.
There are several natural and holistic ways out there that can definitely increase your chances.
3) You think you're too old to get pregnant.
There is a lie that the media and our society spreads that says women can't get pregnant after 35 (or 36, or 38, or some other age, depending on who you're talking to) without serious drugs and medical help.
This is wrong.
Statistically it is more difficult for women in this age bracket, but there are millions of women every year who conceive in their 40's and have healthy, beautiful babies.
4) Don't give up, your pregnancy might be right around the corner.
I know it's tough to keep trying things that don't work.
And if people have told you it's not going to happen for you, don't listen.
I know several women who were told it would be impossible to have children, and less than a year later they gave birth to healthy babies.
In my own case, I had almost given up hope when I found a resource that helped me.
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