Has your entire world been turned upside down by your ex? One minute you're in a happy relationship and the next thing you know you're all alone not quite sure how you ended up there.
 Losing the one you love can be heartbreaking and leave you feeling insecure.
 You may want spend hours crying or just staying home.
 This doesn't have to be the end.
   Despite how badly things may have ended there are still some tricks to wining your lover back.
No more calling or texting your ex.
 That's right; you're going to stop talking to the one you love.
  At this point nothing you say is going to get your love to come back.
 Actions speak so much louder than words, so no more communication with your old flame.
    The next part is a little more difficult.
 You are going to have to play the role of a happy secure individual.
 Your ex needs to think that you are happy and able to function without them.
 You may not feel that way inside, but it's necessary to get them back into your life.
 A good start is to go out shopping for some new clothes, and maybe hang out with some friends.
 You want your ex to see that you can live your life without them just fine.
  The last step is playing hard to get.
 Your ex is bound to notice the change in your attitude and want to contact you.
 When you get that first phone call or text message you need to stay calm and act casual.
You don't want to seem too eager to hear from them.
 Agree to have a lunch date to catch up, and just let nature take its course.