The pain and anger you're feeling right now is almost unbearable! It's hard to believe that an argument can leave you feeling so drained, resentful, and totally alone.
Of course the only thing that will change all of this, is if you can successfully win your ex back.
You are convinced that if you do or say something that will make your ex feel pity for you, you will get back together again.
Okay, so you DO need some sympathy right now.
You are suffering from a broken heart because of the failed relationship and need someone to help you to get over it.
However, your ex is definitely not the person to look for sympathy from.
No way will this even remotely give you a chance to win your ex back.
The reality is that your ex is feeling exactly the same way you are right now and also needs time to heal - away from you.
If you and your ex get together right now, it means that your fragile emotions will clash big time, and you will have another major argument.
Another thing, do you really want your ex to take you back because he/she feels pity for you? Wouldn't you rather have your ex willingly come back to you because he/she still loves you deeply? There is only one obvious way to win your ex back, and that is if you and your ex get back together again because you feel a mutual need to be with each other.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself and just relax.
Take some time to get over the break up and start feeling like your old self again.
You will have a much better chance to win your ex back when you aren't an emotional wreck anymore.
Your ex would much rather be with someone who is happy and confident than someone who is weak and looking for sympathy.
So the solution to your problem is to leave your ex alone for now, allow both of you to get over the trauma of the break up, and rethink your actions when you are feeling better.
When you are your old self again, it will make your ex a lot more eager to talk to you again, and who knows, you could very well win your ex back again.