You can get your ex back.
Do you believe me? You know that you two should be together, you just need to find that magic bullet that will show you how to convince her.
Well buddy, the trick isn't to convince her, it's to make her think that she has to convince you to take her back.
Whoa, little confusing there.
She knows that she could have you back whenever she wanted doesn't she? That's part of the problem.
You need to confuse her a little before she'll come running back to you, begging you to take her back and telling you she'll do whatever you want to prove that she loves you and made the biggest mistake of her life! You don't even need to write a letter! So long as you haven't begged her to take you back, or told her she's making a big mistake or cried and told her that you still love her, that you'll always love her then you don't need to write a letter.
You can call her, or "bump into" her or even text her...
the only problem with texting is that she might not read it.
But a letter? Guaranteed she'll read a handwritten letter even if you have made any of the mistakes I've listed.
If you go with the letter then it does need to be handwritten, on nice paper.
Mail it to her work if you can but her home address is fine too.
You need it to be a short note.
If it's long you look desperate.
You need to do a stunning bit of jiu-jitsu and deflect her anger and desire to break up with you.
If you succeed then she'll be stunned, confused and for the first time wonder if she made the right decision and suddenly remember all the good things in your relationship.
The letter needs to be just a few words, and it needs to be your own words.
But basically you need to say that she was right, that the break up was the right thing to do.
If you can also add that you had been thinking that it might be a good idea for quite a while beforehand and you are actually glad that she feels the same way.
Do you believe me? You know that you two should be together, you just need to find that magic bullet that will show you how to convince her.
Well buddy, the trick isn't to convince her, it's to make her think that she has to convince you to take her back.
Whoa, little confusing there.
She knows that she could have you back whenever she wanted doesn't she? That's part of the problem.
You need to confuse her a little before she'll come running back to you, begging you to take her back and telling you she'll do whatever you want to prove that she loves you and made the biggest mistake of her life! You don't even need to write a letter! So long as you haven't begged her to take you back, or told her she's making a big mistake or cried and told her that you still love her, that you'll always love her then you don't need to write a letter.
You can call her, or "bump into" her or even text her...
the only problem with texting is that she might not read it.
But a letter? Guaranteed she'll read a handwritten letter even if you have made any of the mistakes I've listed.
If you go with the letter then it does need to be handwritten, on nice paper.
Mail it to her work if you can but her home address is fine too.
You need it to be a short note.
If it's long you look desperate.
You need to do a stunning bit of jiu-jitsu and deflect her anger and desire to break up with you.
If you succeed then she'll be stunned, confused and for the first time wonder if she made the right decision and suddenly remember all the good things in your relationship.
The letter needs to be just a few words, and it needs to be your own words.
But basically you need to say that she was right, that the break up was the right thing to do.
If you can also add that you had been thinking that it might be a good idea for quite a while beforehand and you are actually glad that she feels the same way.
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