Getting the word from your boyfriend that he wants to break up, can be a difficult thing to swallow.
If you love your boyfriend, and don't want to see him walk away for good, you will need to know the right and wrong ways to get him back.
Here are three basic things that will help you properly get your man back into your life.
Chances are that during your relationship you had been able to talk to your man quite often.
Now that you have broken up, the urge to call him might be strong, but you have to avoid doing it.
If you spend too much time worrying about getting a hold of your ex, you can push him further away, and that is not something you want if you're trying to get him back.
While you may be completely torn up over the breakup you have to remember that even though he broke up with you, he is still going through some pain and trouble himself.
It is vital that you let him know that you can see past your own misery and are concerned about how he is doing.
Take some time to really understand why the breakup happened.
No one likes to criticize ourselves, but being able to understand why he broke up with you will put you on his side.
Being able to put yourself on his side, will make him realize that you do see what had caused it, and are willing to fix it.
Ask his friends about it, chances are they were told at least a little something about the reason he decided to break up with you.