Have You Been Dumped? Be Positive! Your Situation is NOT Hopeless - You WILL Get Your Ex Back!
Even though you and your ex have broken up, and it is difficult, force yourself to be positive, and you will definitely get your ex back.
If you keep telling yourself that your situation is hopeless, then that is just how it will stay - you will be miserable for a very long time, and you won't get your ex back.
Think logically about what has happened, and you will see that there very definitely is hope that you and your ex will get back together again.
For instance, you broke up because of an argument, right? You didn't simply turn a switch and turn off any love you had for one another - that is impossible to do.
The love is still there - you are both just hurt and angry about the things that you said to each other - that's all.
So, give yourself and your ex a little time to get over these feelings, and after a few days everything will fall back into place again, and you will get your ex back.
The love that you have for each other will eventually push all the bad feelings aside, and you'll start missing each other a lot.
This is precisely when you will make contact with each other and fix the problem that caused the break up.
Until that happens though, make a point of telling yourself all the time that you WILL get your ex back - be determined, and have patience.
People argue all the time and in most cases, after a few days or even hours, the argument is forgotten and the friendship is back on track again.
The one thing that is really important though, is that when you an your ex DO get back together again, to fix the problems you have once and for all, so that you don't have the same arguments over and over again.
Do this, and not only will you get your ex back, but you will also KNOW that it will last this time, because you have sorted out your differences that caused the arguments that caused the break up.
If you keep telling yourself that your situation is hopeless, then that is just how it will stay - you will be miserable for a very long time, and you won't get your ex back.
Think logically about what has happened, and you will see that there very definitely is hope that you and your ex will get back together again.
For instance, you broke up because of an argument, right? You didn't simply turn a switch and turn off any love you had for one another - that is impossible to do.
The love is still there - you are both just hurt and angry about the things that you said to each other - that's all.
So, give yourself and your ex a little time to get over these feelings, and after a few days everything will fall back into place again, and you will get your ex back.
The love that you have for each other will eventually push all the bad feelings aside, and you'll start missing each other a lot.
This is precisely when you will make contact with each other and fix the problem that caused the break up.
Until that happens though, make a point of telling yourself all the time that you WILL get your ex back - be determined, and have patience.
People argue all the time and in most cases, after a few days or even hours, the argument is forgotten and the friendship is back on track again.
The one thing that is really important though, is that when you an your ex DO get back together again, to fix the problems you have once and for all, so that you don't have the same arguments over and over again.
Do this, and not only will you get your ex back, but you will also KNOW that it will last this time, because you have sorted out your differences that caused the arguments that caused the break up.
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