Want to Convince Your Ex Boyfriend To Get Back Together? Maybe You Shouldn"t!
Do you still love your ex boyfriend? Do you want to convince him to get back together? If it seems like you will never get over him because he's the love of your life, then it can be hard to watch that slip away from you day by day.
You think about him constantly, and the pain of knowing that you might never be together again can feel devastating.
But what do you do if you want to convince your ex boyfriend to get back together? Even if you know that he still loves you, convincing him to give you a second chance can seem almost impossible.
You think of different scenarios, of sweeping grand gestures, and just dream of the day when he'll call you and say that he misses you and wants you back.
It can seem like a pipe dream.
And the more you call him, text him, or try to talk to him, the more it seems like it's pushing you further and further apart.
Look, here's the problem.
Even if your ex boyfriend still loves you (or even if he's acting like he doesn't), you can't convince him that you need to get back together.
You have to make him want you again.
You have to make him pursue you.
Guys like the chase.
They like the hunt of getting a girl to want them.
And they like the girl who isn't the safe bet.
If the two of you broke up, you have to get him to think of you as the girl he wants, not the girl he can get anytime he picks up the phone.
You have to show him that not only do other guys want you, but that maybe, just maybe you're moving on and he can't have you anymore.
So how do you do that? You start by deciding right now that you aren't going to contact him for at least a week.
No phone calls, no voice mails, no text messages, no emails, no Facebook stalking.
Absolutely no contact.
And while you are waiting, you are going to make yourself so smoking hot that the next time he sees you he won't know what hit him.
Show him what he's missing! But don't be obvious about it.
You want him to think that you are moving on and you don't care about him anymore.
That way it triggers his possessive instincts and he can't resist you!
You think about him constantly, and the pain of knowing that you might never be together again can feel devastating.
But what do you do if you want to convince your ex boyfriend to get back together? Even if you know that he still loves you, convincing him to give you a second chance can seem almost impossible.
You think of different scenarios, of sweeping grand gestures, and just dream of the day when he'll call you and say that he misses you and wants you back.
It can seem like a pipe dream.
And the more you call him, text him, or try to talk to him, the more it seems like it's pushing you further and further apart.
Look, here's the problem.
Even if your ex boyfriend still loves you (or even if he's acting like he doesn't), you can't convince him that you need to get back together.
You have to make him want you again.
You have to make him pursue you.
Guys like the chase.
They like the hunt of getting a girl to want them.
And they like the girl who isn't the safe bet.
If the two of you broke up, you have to get him to think of you as the girl he wants, not the girl he can get anytime he picks up the phone.
You have to show him that not only do other guys want you, but that maybe, just maybe you're moving on and he can't have you anymore.
So how do you do that? You start by deciding right now that you aren't going to contact him for at least a week.
No phone calls, no voice mails, no text messages, no emails, no Facebook stalking.
Absolutely no contact.
And while you are waiting, you are going to make yourself so smoking hot that the next time he sees you he won't know what hit him.
Show him what he's missing! But don't be obvious about it.
You want him to think that you are moving on and you don't care about him anymore.
That way it triggers his possessive instincts and he can't resist you!
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